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An Easy Way To Derail Your Manifesting… And How To Get Back On Track


If you’re playing the manifesting game, chances are you’re looking for it to be easy. 

No judgment here – “easy” can be a great thing!  And it can, indeed, be easy.   

Manifesting was designed to be easy. 

However, our brains are not always on board to make things easy.  Indeed, sometimes it can seem as if our brain is doing everything it can to make things as difficult as possible. 

For example… 

Let’s say you feel that gentle nudge on the inside, pointing you in a given direction.   

You decide you want “the thing.”  You decide you’re going to GO for it. 

The first question your mind asks is… “HOW?”

So you look around, notice all the reasons why you CAN’T have it (no time, the money isn’t in your bank account, etc)… and your energy tanks.   

You can’t SEE how it’s possible… so you decide that you don’t really want it anyway.  

Or consider THIS…  

Society teaches us that we have to “make things happen” (a.k.a. manifest)  by pushing, striving, DO-ing.  We easily fall into what I call the go-go-go, do-do-do paradigm.   

There you are.  You’re hustling.  You’re giving it all you’ve got.  You’re DO-ing until you can’t DO any more.  And you only end up exhausted. 

So what’s REALLY going on in both of these cases?  A sneaky belief about who we THINK we really are. 

We think we are the SOURCE of our money, our time, our results, our success.  So when those resources run out… where does that leave us? 

In a state of lack. 

When you believe you are the Source (of your money, opportunities, healing…) you’ve gotta do everything in your power or it won’t flow to you. If you run out— of time, energy and resources—  So does your ability to manifest what you want.  

Thankfully, we are NOT the Source.  Source is Source.  And only Source is the Source of our good. 

In that scenario, what does that make YOU? 

The Catalyst.  The Conduit.  The Contribution.   

As these things, your supply is unlimited.  And if you know that you are the Contribution… 

You take action as a true co-creative partner with Divine or Creative Life Force.  There is no limit to what you can create or how it can flow in. And you don’t have to do anything except take simple, aligned action to magnetize it to you.  

So what’s your belief, Goddess?   

Do you believe you’ve got to do more to manifest what you want most?  

Have you been getting caught up in how it has to come to you? 

What if you really didn’t have to know the “how,” and instead just had to be willing to BE the channel that the Divine works through? 

What if all you have to “do” to BE that is… receive the guidance, trust it, and follow it? 

Calling in what you choose – and creating your life as you choose – is easy when you allow it. 

But it will never, ever be easy when you’re in slavegirl mode, or lack mode, staring into the tunnel that is your current experience, and thinking that that’s all there is. 

YOU are not all there is.    

Instead, you’re 10,000 times better: a conduit, catalyst and channel for all that is, where “all there is” is unlimited. 

So the next time you find yourself in tunnel vision, about to despair because the solution you seek doesn’t appear to be in front of you, try this… 

Close your eyes.  Make sure you’re fully in your body.  And then with the absolute certainty of a Creatrix who never fails, say… 

“By the Goddess Within, and the Divine Above, Below, Left, Right, Before Me, Behind Me… I call forward the endless possibilities that exist NOW to manifest this Desire NOW.  Specifically, I now allow the awareness of at least three highly aligned ways to call in this or something better, effective immediately, in a way that is even better than I could have hoped for or imagined.  It is done, it is done, it is done.”   

Expect those ways to appear.  Know it will be done. 

Then watch. 

Watch what appears, watch your mind. 

And when they appear, say YES. 

I can’t wait to hear what happens for you when you give this a go.  Let me know how this lands for you in the comments! 

Love & magic, 



PS: Manifesting gets a LOT easier when you truly understand exactly HOW you’re creating your reality, and therefore your results. 

Over the past year, I’ve been teaching a lot about the 4 manifesting tools you already have to create everything you’ll ever want. 

 These are tools that are in you already, and that you are using already – whether you’re aware of it or not.  (Most people aren’t.)  Learn to use them consciously, and you can manifest just about anything with lightning speed.   

I believe that these 4 tools are truly the keys to the kingdom, so to speak.  I created a cheat sheet that explains it all – you can download it here. 


Out Of Alignment With Your Truth? Do This…

Recently one of my private clients reached out because her high-end program launch was rolling slower than she’d expected.    

“What do you think that is?” I asked.   

(When people aren’t signing up, there’s always a reason.  On some level, you always know what it is.)  

“People aren’t feeling a sense of urgency.”   

Of course, this played exactly into her “people won’t pay $20k++ for spiritual work” story.   

“People just don’t see spiritual work as important enough to pay for.  Why would a leader in their field pay $20k to do this work when they can pay that much for a business mastermind to make another million dollars?” 

Then she asked me how WE do it. 

How it is that we regularly enroll clients in, say, The Feminine Magic® School of Manifesting, when they could spend the same amount of money on a business training. 


People pay high fees our transformational programs because at their core, they ALL address the #1 internally-generated pain that humans experience… being OUT of alignment with one’s Desire. 

Another word for “alignment” is “congruence.”   When you are in alignment with your Desires, your head, heart and soul are all on the same page, and your outer world follows suit.  Everything within and without reflects who you truly are.   

When you are in alignment, you are unstoppable.  The opposite is also true: when you are out of alignment, you’ll experience a lot of “friction” at best. 

When you are way, way out of alignment… you are miserable. 

I’m not overstating the case when I say that being OUT of alignment with our Desire is the cause of 95% of our internal suffering.   

For example… 

  •  You want to be a writer but you think you can’t because you have to “make a living.”  
  • You want to use your gifts as a spiritual teacher but you think nobody will pay for it.   
  •  You want to quit your job to follow your heart’s calling but you’re afraid you’ll end up  in a cardboard box. 
  • You’re a witch and you’ve always been a witch, and you want to let the most important people in your life in on the deal, only you know they’re going to freak out, so you go underground. 
  • You want to show yourself as you truly are, but you are afraid, often with good reason, of what other people will think and do. 
  • You’ve already made multi-millions, and you know it’s time for your next move, but you don’t want to disrupt the status quo. 
  • You want to put out a juicy new offer that makes your heart sing, and you know it will resonate with your clients… but you’re afraid of being judged, and wondering if they will really pay for it. 

Sure, the pain of these scenarios can start small.  A dull ache.  Something is wrong but you can’t put your finger on what. 

Or… the flip-flopping.  The back-and-forth.  You can’t make up your mind. 

But sooner or later… it happens.  Your Soul / Highest Self / Essence gets louder and louder; meanwhile, your ego mind has its own agenda and marching orders, making up stories about external circumstances, driving you into the ground with its relentless spin-spin-spin, usually tied to “security.”  


And when that battle inside you gets REALLY ugly… if you’re really honest…  

… it can be “can’t get out of bed in the morning” agony. 

(Ask me how I know.) 

The alignment thing isn’t just “a problem.”  It’s THE problem. 

Every one of us has the urge to grow and expand into our highest self expression.  We also have a brain that has not evolved one iota since the caveman days. One that operates way, waaaay under the radar, to keep us exactly the same. 

Call it what you will— Soul / Ego, Critter Brain vs. Expansive Brain— in Feminine Magic® we call it Divine Self / Human Self… this conflict is the source of endless suffering in humans. 

You know what I’m talking about, don’t you? 

Of course you do, because this conflict is also the source of ALL of your “blocks” and “stopping points.” 

Your higher mind wants to expand.  Your critter brain wants you to stay the same. 

And the deck is stacked against you on this one. Big time.   

We are all swimming in the energies that pull us in every direction other than what our Essence / Spirit / Soul / Heart wants. 

The great news is… you have some say in the matter.  You have tools.  

Are YOU out of alignment with who you really are, your true Desires, your Soul Purpose? 


1. First things first: get honest with yourself. 

 Step Zero is getting fiercely honest with yourself about what you really want. 

 Instead of saying “I didn’t really want it anyway…” while your insides continue to flip out… 

 … notice the ache and go, “Yeah, you know what?  What I really want is [X].” 

 You don’t have to DO anything about it at this point.  (Or at any point.  You get to choose.) 

But the SECOND that you admit to yourself that you want what you REALLY want… the second you speak your truth, to yourself…  

… the inner battle begins to lighten up. 

Because – as odd as it sounds – the pain of being out of alignment with your truth actually comes NOT from the act of it… but from the denying of your truth in the first place. 

You want what you want what you want.  Be honest about it, so at least that energy is freed up.


2. Get with the Truth. 

If you have a Desire, the way is there.  A zillion opportunities exist in any moment.  Your ability to see them is entirely contingent on the thoughts you’re thinking and the energy you’re projecting.  

Your thoughts and perceptions will ALWAYS be matched by thoughts and perceptions of the same vibration. 

This means that if you look in your bank account and see LACK rather than just a circumstance, you will continue to be BOMBARDED by thoughts and perceptions of lack.  And you will fight to call it “evidence.” 

But if you look at your bank account and see just a circumstance, and hold steadfast to the Truth that your opportunity is already here… you will see a zillion opportunities.  Every time. 

Bottom line: “I can’t” is an illusion. 

You may have to take that on faith for a little while, until you study the Law.  (Which we do in The Feminine Magic® School of Manifesting.) 

The more you are willing to REFUSE to accept anything but your true Desires as the answer, the faster they will come into your life. 


3Exercise your power to choose. 

Your greatest power is your power to choose.  It’s one of the things that separates humans (YOU!) from other life forms on the planet. 

Problem is… most people THINK they have the power to choose, when in actuality, that power is greatly diminished.  The “critter brain,” which acts on instinct, and the subconscious, are running the show. 

But we ALSO have wisdom.  Knowledge.  Transformational tools that allow us to quiet the mind and our instincts.  So that we can say YES to what we truly want. 

The more you make conscious choices, instead of being reactive – the more conscious choices you can make. 

Any and all manifestations of significance always come down to a DECISION. 

When you have truly decided, your success is inevitable.  You can have what you want.  So just decide. 


4. Access higher realms of consciousness.

The thoughts that we habitually think, and the level of consciousness that creates them, are NOT all there is.  

You know this intellectually, but how often do you access higher levels of consciousness – daily and deliberately? 

All around you are fields of energy that are GREATER than you, just waiting to be accessed. 

Years ago, I was drawn to the Akashic Records.  (The Akashic Records are a record of your soul – every word, deed, thought and action, across all dimensions, planes, spaces, lifetimes, levels of consciousness and beyond.) 

I was intrigued for a long time before I made the leap and started reading the Records for myself. 

Those first times reading the Records, and all the times since – I was floored by how GOOD they felt. 

The energy of the Records is pure love.  Through the Records we have access to perceptions that we simply can’t have in everyday consciousness.  We can use the field of the Akasha to consciously co-create, as well. 

As above, so below.  That which we impress in the non-form, aims to duplicate itself on the material plane. 

That doesn’t mean we just hang out in the higher realms all day.  Life is meant to be LIVED. 

But when we access realms like the Akashic field, we become more and more aware of the infinite resources available to us, just on the other side of “everyday” consciousness… and here in the physical realm, as well.

That’s why I’ve made the decision to add the Akashic Records to our Feminine Magic® offerings.  (We’re releasing it to a select group of clients in advance – if you’d like to be included, email the team at teamgoddess@goddessbusinessschool.com.) 


5. Get in community. 

One of the most overlooked tools for manifesting mastery is WHO you surround yourself with. 

Surround yourself with people who have what you choose, or are committed to having what you choose … and you will be effortlessly pulled toward your goal, without even thinking about it.  

Think you can’t have what you want? 

Consider all those who have it already.  (There are many.) 

Get with some of them.  Then add the people who really SEE you, and can call you on your disbelief. 

Doubt and fear cannot stand in a group of people who believe in you. 


Now more than ever, I see women of our community suffering from not being in alignment with their TRUE Desires. 

Do you want the life you Desire, or the back up plan? 

Are you going for what you want, or what you think you can get? 

You will always find a zillion reasons why you can’t be, do or have something that matters to you.  Your mind will always find a way to take you out. 

All you have to do… is choose.   

And re-choose.  And choose again.  

Because you aren’t going to un-do a lifetime— a millennia— of conditioning overnight.  

But you do get to choose, and re-choose, and choose again.  

What will you choose? 

A Simple Nature Ritual To Amp Up Appreciation

In the Feminine Magic® School of Manifesting, we focus a lot on morning ritual. 

And our students are always so curious— they want to know do I really do my morning ritual EVERY day? 

The answer is yes.   

Morning ritual. Every day.   

That said, I have several different versions.  There’s the 10 minute version, for those mornings when my 4-year old really needs her Mommy time.   

My usual routine takes about 30 minutes.   

THEN.. there are Sundays.    

I loooove Sundays.  We have a babysitter here in the morning, so Mommy and Daddy can have some time to themselves, separately or together.  Which means my morning ritual can take a full-on 90 minutes.     


Recently I’ve started a practice of making offerings in the back yard.  To nature spirits (my favorite), God, Goddess… the energetic entities you wish to recognize for their contribution to your abundance.   

This is a super-simple magical practice that anyone can do, no matter how much time you have.  It’s a great start to a gratitude / appreciation practice, or you can add it to your current practice.     


Youll need these ritual supplies:  

  • 1 generous pinch of a casting herb blend for abundance (I love blends from Sage Goddess)   
  • 1 or 2 intuitively chosen oils.  I usually go with Frankincense, because it’s so Divine AND so precious – a true offering.  Then one other, intuitively chosen.  Today was Spikenard.  
  • Sea salt, for purification   
  • Gemstone chipstones, if you want to kick it up a notch!!  (mine today were snowflake obsidian)   
  • Sage, if you’re so inclined   


Here are your ritual steps: 

1. To begin, I like to clear myself with sage and anoint my 3rd eye with an oil such as Frankincense.

2. Then, mix the herbs, salt and chipstones in a small dish or cauldron.

3. Now, choose a spot in your yard to make the offering.  (I like to do this intuitively, too… clear your mind, then ask to be shown where the offering wants to go.).   

4. Clear the space lightly with sage.

5. Pour out the herb mixture, then add a drop or two of your oils.

6. Dial up the gratitude and appreciation, speaking your thanks out loud.

That’s it!  

May this practice help you begin your day feeling blessed, supported and full of the appreciation that is so much rocket fuel for your manifesting.  

When you give it a try please share how you made this ritual your own in the comments.  

And for more ritual magic, join us over here in my new Facebook community, Essential Oil Magic. It’s filled with tons of simple rituals like this one. 🙂  

Bright Blessings!  

3 Ways To Manifest Using The Energy Of Shadow Season

Last week’s New Moon Ritual marks the first of many.  I’m so excited to give our community a glimpse into the magical path I’ve been devoted to for years. 

We’re already planning the next New Moon ritual – watch for details!  

Leveraging the energies present in any given season is a practice that is deeply ingrained in magical paths around the globe. 

In my tradition, we observe the Wheel of the Year, which is based on the Celtic agrarian calendar, updated for modern times.  We use the Wheel to align with the natural cycles of life. 

Seasonal changes were very important to the Celts, who looked to nature to know when to plow the fields, sow their seeds, harvest the crops, and rest.  

The Wheel that I (and many others) follow today is divided into 4 fire festivals, spaced evenly throughout the year.   

Each fire festival celebrates the transition of the sun through the 4 seasons— winter, spring, summer and fall. The Wheel also include 4 ‘quarter’ festivals to celebrate the midpoints of each season— The spring and fall equinoxes and the summer and winter solstice. 

To keep things really simple, I find it easier to look at The Wheel as 2 halves: light season and shadow season.   

The light season, includes Ostara or Spring Equinox (March 20 – 23) through to Lammas (August 1) and the shadow season from the Autumn Equinox or Mabon (September 20 – 22)  through to Imbolc (February 2).   

Note that shadow season is not to be confused with shadow work, or the practice of consciously integrating the darker and more triggering aspects of ourselves so that we can become whole.  

That said… shadow season happens to be a great time to do this sort of thing. (More on that in a minute. 😉 ) 

For magic makers (magicians, priestesses, witches, etc.), The Wheel of the Year connects to the natural rhythm of life— birth, death and then rebirth.  Light season, shadow season and then light once more.  When working with the seasons, we experience our own cycles and we are reminded that there is indeed a time for everything.  

In the light we are meant to seed, birth and blossom, and in the shadows we reap, reflect and rest. 

Working with the seasons and the natural rhythm of the Universe as you manifest is very powerful.  Since there is a cycle to everything in our Universe, when we work in alignment with nature, we set ourselves up for the path of least resistance.  We allow things to unfold with far more ease. 

So do you NEED to follow the Wheel of the Year for successful manifesting?  

Not at all! 

Sometimes the cycle that serves you best is within you.   And sometimes, you simply have to do what needs to be done. 

Personally, I’m just not going to hang out and wait to sign a contract simply because Mercury is in retrograde.  (I know plenty of people who do.) 

And….at the same time I do follow the natural rhythms and work with the cycles very closely.  Not because it’s tradition or to honor Goddess, but because it puts me on a path of accelerated manifesting success. 

My personal stance is to work magic and manifest with the cycles from a place of personal responsibility and personal power.  Not by giving over choice or decisions to “the powers that be.” 

All our Desires truly exist in the now.  We have the opportunity to allow them more quickly by working with the energies present in each season, when we can, without abdicating responsibility.  

We are at choice, always.  

Over time, we’ll share more ‘how to’ on manifesting with the energy of the seasons and other natural cycles.  

Right now, as we approach the final harvest and enter the darker time, I want to share 3 ways to manifest using the energy of shadow season.  

Shadow Season Practice #1: Celebrate Your Harvest & Release What No Longer Serves 

The shadow season begins after the 2nd of the three harvest festivals, Lammas, Mabon and Samhain, happening in just a few days on October 31st.   

It’s the ideal time to give thanks for all that you’ve manifested by amping up your gratitude practice and to release what’s no longer serving you.   

Celebration and gratitude isn’t simply “a nice thing to do”. The energy of gratitude is highly magnetic.  It instantly raises your frequency and energizes abundance to call in more.  

If you’re already celebrating a bountiful harvest, amp up your practices and watch even more blessings appear.  

 Key manifesting practices include:  

Shadow Season Practice #2: Go Within  

The shadow season is also a great time to really explore the parts of ourselves that need to be brought to the light to release.   (Indeed, this is one of the ways you can observe Samhain, a day traditionally devoted to the shadow.)  

Going within is an opportunity to get in reality about the habits and patterns that typically take us out.. 

Often (okay…always) these shadow aspects represent exactly what we need to let go of and integrate in order to call in what we Desire.  That which we cannot be with owns us… and keeps us from fully stepping into our true sovereignty to create as we choose.   

When we go within during the shadow season, we set ourselves up to show up in the light season more fully.  

Key manifesting practices include:  

  • Connect with your shadow self in meditation, visualization or with oracle readings. Conjure up the version of yourself that represents the darkest, most unlovable qualities you notice without yourself and really speak to her from a place of compassion.Ask your Shadow… 
  1. How does she serve you? 
  2. What does she want to express? 
  3. What actions can you take to allow her to feel welcome? 
  • Performing self-love rituals. Because digging deep is exhausting…not going to lie. You’ll want to offset this kind of work with lots of self-compassion, self-love and self-care.  Here are 3 super easy rituals to do so: 
  1.  Anoint your heart chakra with rose essential oil morning and night 
  2. Consciously create the resonance of love for 2 – 5 minutes several times throughout the day or immediately following any triggering experience.  
  3. Write yourself a short love note at the end of each day. 


Shadow Season Practice #3: Take Stock, Complete and Clear 

As you celebrate what have you called in up to this point, the shadow season also becomes a great time to consider any unfinished business and to discern what needs to be completed vs. what must be cleared so that we can start anew for the next cycle.  

This may mean kicking things into high gear to reap your final harvest. Or, it might be time to clear the decks and look at what you really want moving forward.  

This can be a really tricky one for ambitious peeps, I know.  

It’s not the green light to start push, push, pushing and working against the natural rhythms that invite us to slow down. 

You have to be really honest with yourself here. You have to connect with Essence and ask— “Is it really time to push… or is time to clear my plate?”  

And if the answer is “keep going”, you’ll want to really focus on aligned action, not  busy work, to make sure you’re manifesting from a place of Truth. 

Key manifesting practices include:  

  • Reviewing your Desires and any goals set in the spring.  
  • Working with Divination tools. Tapping into higher wisdom with oracle cards, tarot, pendulums, or automatic writing can offer clarity around next steps. 
  • Taking massive, aligned action to manifest a big Desire. To really understand what “aligned action” really means, download or review The Core Manifesting Process — aligned action is step 6


Shadow Season Bonus Practice: Plant Seeds For Spring 

Though this season is all about winding down, it’s also the ideal time to look ahead and to plan for the light season.  

This isn’t the time to do major sowing of seeds, of course, but it is a great time to get clear on what you really wish to create when the light returns and take simple actions to put you on that path.  

Key manifesting practices include: 

  • Start or deepen your New Moon Ritual . New Moons are the ideal time in the lunar cycle to set intentions and your practice over the shadow season can deepen the practices above and guide you to what you want next.  
  • Begin journaling or meditating to uncover your biggest boldest Desires.
  • Look at The Wheel of the Year to come, and consider when you might wish to manifest specific outcomes using the energies present. (a.k.a. create a loose calendar or plan for next year)


True to form, the coming weeks will find me celebrating harvest AND sharing one more offering that has been in my heart to bring forth all year.  

This will be the magical training & manifesting community I wish I had a decade ago….  

I’ll be teaching, for the first time, the magical practices and tools that I personally use for success, and we’ll be doing a lot of manifesting in accordance to the cycles and seasons too.  

We’ll learn and practice the art of… 

  • Ritual  
  • Intuitive development  
  • Energy work  
  • Lunar cycles  
  • Protection  
  • Accessing the Field for rapid manifestation  
  • Words of Power (soooo excited about this)  
  • How to shed the patterns of safety patterning that stop you from receiving 
  • Money magic (OBVIOUSLY!) 
  • And so much more. 

This will be your space to say YES to the Desires of your heart – flat out, no apologies – and use the art of magic to create real world success and massive results. 

Excited yet?  😉  Me too… 

This has been a long Desire coming and a Goddess-given directive on my path.  

Drop me a comment if you want to receive an early bird notification about the new membership community and let me know…  

Which shadow season practices are YOU most drawn to for the coming months?  

You + Me + Magic All Next Year And Beyond (Special Invite)

If you really get, deep down, that “Goddess” is not just some feminine empowerment rah-rah…  

That you are She and She is YOU… 

And you’re ready to truly unlock the Divine gifts, powers and abilities within you and take your life and business to the next level of extraordinary—  I have a once in a lifetime, time sensitive invitation to share.  

You + Me + Magicall next yearand beyond.   

Yep for real… check this out 🙂  

Next month we open the doors to our brand new annual magical membership community. #spoileralert 

More news to come…  

For now, I can share that the vision for our community is to be the sacred space to learn magic and metaphysical tools for wealth and success.  

I’ll be sharing the actual magical practices I’ve used for years, not previously shared in any other program or training.  

We’ll use work with the tools of Feminine Magician to create rapid, real world results.  

It is going to be incredible. 

And… youre invited to join us, for free, this coming year and beyond. 

Heres how:  

Over the next couple of days, I’m gifting LIFETIME membership to our new magical community when you join doTERRA with … drumroll! … a Diamond Kit.

doTERRA essential oils have been an integral part of my personal energy management and magical rituals and workings for many years now.   

Having a Diamond Kit  provides energetic support for anything you wish to manifest. It includes every product and oil they carry. And of course, we’ll be working all kinds of essential oil magic in the membership community too. 

To make this deal even sweeter… Ialso offering 14 days of private coaching with me via Voxer, my favorite voice messaging app.  

We can use our time together to help you manifest something juicy before the year’s end.   

You’ll have my help to 10x – 50x your oils investment if you wish (it’s what I do with all my private clients).  

You may even wish to kick start a residual income stream with doTERRA. And if that’s the case this kit will take you straight to the top. 

Voxer coaching plus just ONE year’s membership equates to $4497+++ in bonuses and the opportunity to learn magic from me and work with me privately… 

And all you need to do is invest in your wellness, magical supplies and success with doTERRA’s Diamond kit.  

There are just 2 spots available and there will never be a sweeter deal.  

If one of them has your name on it…  

Order your Diamond Kit right here. 

(Scroll down to the Heres How To Order” section mid-way down the page and select Diamond Kit when prompted to choose your enrollment kit. ) 

If you have any questions before you order, email essentialoils@goddessbusinessschool.com and we’ll get you sorted.  

PS: This invitation is for NEW doTERRA peeps ONLY and is only open for the next few days. First come, first serve.