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My Top 10 Essential Oils For Magical Travel

Do you find yourself drawn to travel?  Do you have a case of wanderlust? 

The Gold Coast, Peru, Bali, Italy, Hawaii… Australia…. the women of our Feminine Magic® community are of the world, and are called to see the world! 

So here’s a shocker… (not!) … I’m no different.

I’ve been traveling to attend retreats, conferences and ceremonies for years. I’ve hosted retreats up and down the beautiful West Coast.  And just this year we traveled as a family to Maine, I’ve ventured solo to Belfast, Ireland twice, to California 3 times and I’m off to my longtime former home, New York City, in just a couple of weeks. 

(I was also due to go to Necker Island to hang with Richard Branson, but due to the

hurricanes, our trip got postponed. Please hold the people of the British Virgin Islands in your heart; they’re in pretty bad shape down there. xoxoxoxox) 

Travel is a powerful catalyst for transformation for successful, ambitious women.  It gets you out of your home frequency, and stretches your mind. 

It creates an environment like no other to shift who you’re BE-ing and uplevel your desired energetic state in a visceral way.   

And whether you’re traveling for pleasure, a retreat, spiritual growth, a mastermind or training, travel is a natural way to raise your frequency…and essential oils are the perfect magical travel companion.  

Why?  

Because they offer a similar effect— an instant and dramatic change in state that heightens and grounds your travel experiences.   

They also have a whole host of wellness benefits that can’t be beat while traveling.  Fatigue, headaches, dealing with germ-central environments like airports, jet lag, exposure to foreign (to you) bacteria. 

AND… 

Of course you can use them in your manifesting rituals along the way! 

If you’re looking for a few simple rituals to take on the road, I offered up 3 manifesting with essential oil rituals last week.  

Check out: My Manifesting Secret Weapon

There are a few more essential oil based rituals for receiving over here.

Finally (and most exciting to share!!), I’ll be offering up even more travel-friendly manifesting  practices and rituals over in my new private Facebook group, Essential Oil Magic. So join us! 🙂 

 

Here are the 10 essential oils that I always take with me for magical travel and why… 

1. Frankincense is the POWERHOUSE of magical oils. It known as “God in a bottle” and  is regarded as a strong spiritual conduit to God (and Goddess) with an overall masculine energy. It really can be used for anything but it’s my quick go-to for deepening my connection to Essence and embodying the energy of peace and relaxation. I also reach for ‘Frank’ for purification and to enhance the overall energy of my magical work. You can also apply this to the bottom of your feet to balance moods and maintain overall wellness while on the road.

TIP: If you’re looking for a strong feminine counterpart, grab Myrrh! 😉  

2. Lemon is great for detoxing and can be used for both literal and spiritual cleansing. One of the simplest essential oil practices is using lemon in your water like I do daily. When I’m traveling I’m able to skip the sugary, flavored drinks in most restaurants by jazzing up my water with a few drops of lemon instead. It’s like a mini flush for your entire system that also opens and uplifts the spirit.  

 3. Lavender is one of the most popular essential oils for good reason. It possesses calming and intuitive properties and imbues the energy of happiness, peace, comfort, and companionship. Use a few drops of lavender to help you relax and get some shut eye on those long flights and before morning meditation.  

4. OnGuard (a doTERRA® blend) always makes the packing list because its proprietary blend strengthens the immune system (perfect for airports and germ-y airplanes), and it’s also ideal for protection and establishing boundaries which is often needed when venturing to new environments with unfamiliar people. OnGuard contains clove, a strong cleansing oil for your physical body and spirit. I take this one internally while on the road and at home and often add a few drops to  fractionated coconut oil or my hotel hand soap to make an easy hand sanitizer.  

5. Peppermint essential oil creates lightness of spirit – something we all need while on the road.  It also cuts brain fog and stimulates alertness, making it perfect for jet lag. Peppermint can also be used to freshen breath, soothe an upset tummy, and support the respiratory system. I love to pop a drop in my mouth and inhale deeply, letting my heart and mind lift gently before I head out for the adventures of the day. 

6. Breathe (a doTERRA® blend) clears the air. I keep it on hand to keep the sniffles at bay if I do feel a cold or allergies setting it. This blend contains Ravensara leaf, another oil that is known for its  protecting, cleansing, and healing properties. (If you’re noticing a trend here it’s because transformation requires a whole lot of letting go and releasing).  

7. Melaleuca, also known as “tea tree” oil comes with me for clearing, cosmetics and cuts. It’s perfect to dab on blemishes (who else has skin that freaks out when traveling?) or minor cuts and hang nails to keep them clean until I can apply a bandaid. I also use to clear any negative energies in new or unfamiliar spaces. A few drops in a spray bottle with water works… or you can travel with your diffuser like I do sometimes. Melaleuca is also a decongestant, clearing energy blocks or body toxins you want to release. 

8. Wild Orange is the oil of abundance. That pretty much says it all. We travel to expand and to open our eyes to the abundant nature of our world. This is one of my all time favorites at home too. I drink it daily (in water, like lemon) and to use it aromatically to literally breathe in abundance.  I put Wild Orange in everything!  Rub a drop or 2 of wild orange with equal parts peppermint and frankincense in your palms and then inhale deeply for energizing boost of creativity and inspiration. 🙂  

9. Forgive (a doTERRA® blend) helps release the weight of guilt, doubt, anger…basically any low frequency energy that keeps you from moving forward. I have this one in a rollerball for fast application and will anoint my wrists or heart chakra when a something presents to be forgiven. Like the “mom guilt” that sometimes creeps in when you’re on the road missing your loves at home, but know it’s for a greater good.  

10. Purify (a doTERRA® blend) is also a powerful oil for clearing and cleansing. Again, use this oil in a spray bottle or diffuser to clear yourself of any negative energies, old thought patterns or emotions that no longer serve. And to combat odors (stuffy hotel rooms) and germs. Just add a few drops to a cotton ball and stick it in the air vents of cars or small rooms.  

And because I couldn’t actually stop at 10, here are two bonus oils for you. 

11. Motivate (a doTERRA® blend) will cleanse negative emotions like guilt or pessimism and replace them with feelings of confidence, courage, and belief. When traveling, I bring this one, usually in a rollerball, to help me embrace new experiences. Perfect for moving through fears to cross items off your bucket list. You can also anoint your temples for focus and the back of the neck for confidence before speaking.  

12. Passion (a doTERRA® blend) helps you consciously create the highly magnetic energy of passion. I love it for business retreats to help you rekindle feelings of excitement about your work and to reconnect to your vision. Place few drops in your bath water or on hand towel placed (carefully) on the shower floor will set you up powerfully for a day of creative brainstorming or strategy.  

So those are my personal favorites to take on the road.   

But remember, you won’t get the benefits if you just toss them into your luggage or overnight bag and call it a day! 

To use oils effectively for magical travel, you’ll have to be a little more intentional.  

Instead, pack some easy manifesting rituals and a simple protocol that’s hand-selected for your journey.  You don’t have to do a ton research to set yourself up because I’ve got you covered.  

Check out the articles linked earlier in this article, and if you’re ready to up your manifesting game – even while on the road! – check out my latest 14-day manifesting journey, Manifesting With Essential Oils. 

You’ll learn all about how to use essential oils to stabilize your emotions, and a LIVE 14-day guided journeyto become a vibrational match to the success you want, with the help of essential oils. 

If you have transformative travel on the horizon and want to amplify the impact of your trip working with essential oils… join us! 

Get the full scoop, and register right here  

PS: The doors close on Monday!! If you’re in, drop me a comment below 🙂  

3 Manifesting Habits You Must Master To Create Money On Command

There’s nothing like the rush of manifesting your first big income breakthrough.

Manifesting cash windfalls of $10K, $30K, $50K or more when YOU choose is an experience like no other!

AND once the dust settles… you’re going to desire more.

Is it wrong or selfish to want this?

No way!!

Money is a physical manifestation of expansion.  It E-X-P-A-N-D-S the options available to you and empowers you to move through life exactly as you Desire.

And speaking of Desire… we are all born with the Desire for more.

So… you Desire more. You claim it as yours. You decide you’re going to go for it…

You’re GOING to manifest a new, bolder money goal…

And sometimes that’s where you find yourself stuck because the way you manifested that first or second or even third money goal, doesn’t always work when you decide to double or triple the amount you’re after.

You see, manifesting your next cash lump sum isn’t likely going to happen the exact same way as it did last time, especially when you set your sights on bigger (more triggering!) numbers.

The good news is, while the “how” might be different each time, there are 3 manifesting habits that pretty well guarantee your ability to create money on command if you take the time to master them:

Habit #1: Strengthen your decision-making muscle

Rapid manifestation – especially when it comes to money – requires decision-making.

You’ve got to be willing to make decisions and move forward.

I’m not talking about deciding what you want. That’s a given.

You’ve actually got to master the art of decision making and to be willing to make decisions based solely on your intuitive guidance. Working from the ether instead of logic and asking to be shown the right next step.

Call this person.  Create this program.  Charge X amount.

Easier said than done right?

I get it.

Most people are so used to researching every single knob-twiddle, hoping to know ahead of time how it’s all going to play out.

But overthinking just gets in the way of making decisions.  Wanting to know “how” just keeps you in the gap of not having it (i.e. anxiety and resistance).

Instead, get comfortable being in the mystery (that space between where you are and where you want to be) and receiving information from outside your rational mind.

The beautiful thing about making decisions is that you really can’t get it wrong!

Even amidst what feels like a “bad” decision you’re sure to receive new information that will allow you to course correct along the way.

Remember… everything you want is already here.  So every decision you makewith the pure intention of receiving your goal has no choice but to be a potential pathway leading you closer to said goal.

Bottom line?  Get comfortable making decisions quickly.

Habit #2: Let go with lightening speed

But what happens if you’ve been making decisions at a pretty rapid pace and the money still isn’t showing up? What then?

The ONLY cause of non-miracles is… (drumroll)… resistance.

In other words, you’re holding on to something that needs letting go of.

If the money (or anything you’re manifesting) hasn’t shown up yet, there is SOMETHING you’re still attached to and that attachment is blocking you from receiving it.

Letting go is pretty black and white.

You’re either resisting or you’re allowing. To allow you’ve got to let go (of whatever needs letting go of) and step in to the BE-ing (thoughts, feelings, energy, emotions and actions) of the one who has it.

So what do you need to let go of?

With money in particular, it’s two things:

  • Old habits and beliefs, some of which are unconscious
  • Resistance to the aligned actions you need to take to call in the money

This is where some of the well meaning, “feel good” manifestation teachings out there can really lead you astray.

They falsely leave you believing that resistance is a red flag and that your best bet is to choose what “feels better” and that isn’t always so.

Or, they have you focus on the “negative beliefs” holding you back.  What does that do?  Keep you stuck in the belief!

Want to know a better way to shift your programming?  Create a new experience.  (In other words, create the result.)

When you see the resistance to aligned action for what it is, space is created for you to let go.  The more you do it, the easier it gets.  Which brings me to habit number 3…

Habit 3: Take action, even if it doesn’t feel good

One of biggest reasons people struggle with manifesting bigger and bigger money goals, even when they’ve done it successfully before, is that they’re not willing to take the NEW action they’re being guided to.

One of the simplest and most common examples for business owners is *drum roll please*… picking up the phone.

If you’ve been in my world for any time at all you’ve probably heard me say: “Money comes from the Divine, through other people.”

Meaning, the money you’re trying to call in isn’t going to fall into your lap while you’re hanging out in meditation.

Money moves by ONE thing only, and that’s SALES.

This is why I often challenge my business coaching clients especially to pull on their big girl panties and start picking up the phone when they want to call in a lot of money fast.

This prescribed course of aligned action is almost always met with mega resistance.

“Holy crap, Elizabeth! Can’t I just send an email instead?”

“Who would I call anyway?”

“But this isn’t how I do things in my business.”

“OMG what will people think of me?”

I totally get it.

Reaching out is triggering for most people.  It was for me at one point too.

BUT receiving large amounts of money almost always involves taking action on the things you don’t want to do.  It’s about BECOMING the version of yourself who is willing to take bold, often uncomfortable, action as you’re guided in order to create space for the Universe to deliver exactly what you want.

Think of it like visiting the gym regularly in pursuit of a more toned body…

Until it becomes a habit, most people don’t want to go to the gym.

It feels like hell when you’re requiring your body to go past the limits of what you *think* you can do.  It would be so much easier to cozy up in your jammies for an extra hour. Eventually, though, the endorphin rush becomes addictive and in a fairly short time you see results that make the discomfort totally worthwhile.

But nothing happens until you get off your couch and head to your spinning class or yoga class or whatever it is.

Whether manifesting a strong body or your boldest money goals, aligned action is what actually brings the result in.

Speaking of action, let me sneak in one more bonus habit for you.  Because I love you like that 😉

Bonus habit: Set your business up so you never have to create money on command 

Mastering the habits I’ve shared here will make manifesting money an easy to repeat process for you.  AND…

.. despite the glamor of it, really isn’t a great long term strategy.

Manifesting money works… but wouldn’t you rather know with certainty that your bold money goal will be flowing to you, month in and month out?

If that’s true (and if you’re reading this I’m pretty dang certain it is), you want to master the habits of creating money on command WHILE setting up your business as a proper money channel. One that generates the money you desire on autopilot without constantly having to focus on your time, energy and resources on manifesting big windfalls.

What does it take to do this?

First, a willingness to stop looking at your business as it is today as the ONLY way for you to create money.

Then you’ve got to learn the structures you need in place so that simple, low effort actions (like sending out an email) will generate a steady flow of money in return.

And you have to do these things while staying committed to strengthening those habits of decision-making, letting go and taking action.

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There you have it,  3 habits to help you manifest money on command and one juicy bonus to get you started on the path towards having abundant, consistent income as an effortless new normal.

You might be surprised at how “simple” these habits seem but making money (and a lot of it) is not rocket science.

Let me know in the comments… Are you willing to let it be easy?

 

The Key Energetic Secret To Becoming A Money Magnet

Would you like to know the true secret to manifesting money in abundance?

To know what it really takes to become… a money magnet?

Then let me pull back the curtain on one of our industry’s dirtiest little secrets…

Knowing HOW manifest an income breakthrough in your business (your first – or next – 10k, 20k, 50k month) does NOT make you a money magnet, and it never solves your money problems for good.

And those “$30K in 30 days” success stories?

Nobody talks about what happens next because it’s not nearly as inspiring.

To be clear: I LOVE income breakthroughs!

It’s been my specialty for almost a decade. I’ve shown hundreds of women how to manifest money, well before it was the hot thing to teach.

And I’ve shared my own income breakthrough story since day one. When I used the Feminine Magic® Core Manifesting Process to create that first $20k month in my business, it changed everything.

AND…

I’ve also shared that after the high of that breakthrough, I still found myself in a place of not enough. That cash injection shifted me out of famine, but I still wasn’t living in time or money abundance.

Few business coaches will admit that these income breakthroughs have a downside.

YES, the energetic expansion that calls in large sums of money is life changing. YES, the experience of creating that big juicy outcome is miraculous.

AND… it’s not sustainable.

Indeed, after an income breakthrough feast often comes the famine.

Not because you can’t recreate the experience. I believe and teach that once you create a new experience, it’s yours and you can do it again.

The problem is that the new experience you’ve created teaches your squishy mind a new rule: ‘in order for me to generate money in my life or business, I have to manifest a large inflow of cash’.

Manifesting the big lump sum isn’t hard, but having to do it over and over again creates tension instead of ease, and that’s not true financial empowerment.

What is true financial empowerment?

True financial empowerment is moving beyond the “sprint” of manifesting massive inflows of income on command, and winning the “marathon” by knowing how to consistently magnetize any amount of money you desire to flow into
your life through multiple channels, including but also independent of your business.

It’s about knowing how to magnetize money in SURPLUS so that you always have more than enough money available to live life as you choose it.

So HOW do you do this?

How do you move beyond the experience of feast and famine… for good?

How do you move from “shaking the money stick” every few months to generate large sums of money… to becoming a true money magnet?

It begins with your energy and BE-ing the one who embodies the energy of surplus and truly lives in the overflow. Here’s how to do just that.

Step 1: Understand the metaphysics of money.

If you want to transform your money story permanently, and become magnetic to money instead of it controlling you…

… knowing the mechanics of business – getting clients, sales funnels, all the marketing fiddly bits that are sucking up HOURS of your time – is not enough.

Get too caught up in “the fiddly bits” and you wind up where 99.9999% of business owners live: acting out the programming that they have to work hard and trade their life force for money!

It’s not that those things are important. But it comes AFTER what money magicians and metaphysicians have always known…

90% of your money magnetism is about ENERGY; just 10% is execution.

The metaphysical laws at effect in your universe govern money too. Problem is… we live in an environment that programs us to use them in ways that are unconscious and counter-productive.

To live in the overflow, you have to go beyond the mechanics, and yes, beyond working on your “mindset”… to truly understand, energetically, how money WORKS. To bring ALL of the pieces together: the metaphysics, the mechanics AND who you BE – i.e., how you show up with money.

Step 2: Know how to sprint.

It’s not the be-all, end-all of creating wealth, but… knowing how to create massive income breakthroughs for yourself is non-negotiable.

And let’s get real … it’s also a TON of fun! 🙂

Manifesting a big juicy money goal creates the first taste of living in the overflow. Having a consistent, repeatable process for manifesting money on command in this way acclimatizes you to receiving more (and more!) money as your “new normal.”

So far, so good. But here’s the thing…

Many business owners can create a windfall or two, and then they end up right back where they started. OR they can create money only when the right “scarcity buttons” are pushed… and often not even then. (Meh – who wants that?)

Like any skill, the sprint takes practice. And like anything that’s going to completely change your life, it involves moving past the natural resistance that comes up when you move outside your comfort zone.

For “the sprint” to work consistently, you must USE it – consistently and correctly.

Step 3: Then, master the marathon.

Sprinting is great…but the stress of trying to break the world record for the 100 meter dash every month is truly exhausting.

More importantly, it does not create true surplus. The money is there and then it’s gone and YOU have to focus your time and energy to manifest it when what you desire instead is to have it consistently flow in with ease.

How do you work money magic for the LONG haul – to go the distance with flow and ease?

You need to learn how to magnetize money consistently through multiple money channels instead of relying on manifesting large sums of cash. You also need to stop viewing your business or career as the ONLY way for money to flow to you.

I KNOW for entrepreneurs this will be triggering. The problem is, thinking of your business as your ONLY money channel makes you dependent on it – just like a J.O.B.

Finally, if you have a business, you need to set it up so that it produces money consistently, NOT just when it’s time for the windfall. This means seeing your business as independent of YOU.

Of course your business is going to require your time and energy. But most coaches, practitioners and healers are in an unconscious, co-dependent relationship with their business. They are servants to their business, instead of other way around!

Living in the overflow is about magnetizing money independent of your direct actions or your business. It’s about living a life of true freedom fuelled by (mostly) passive income streams that have money working FOR you.

Step 4: Elevate how you show up with money.

“Money management” doesn’t exactly sound sexy. I know! I know! Some would rather watch paint dry than hang out with their numbers.

Thing is, magnetizing larger and larger amounts of money requires impeccable stewardship.

Many coaches, practitioners and healers want the consistent money windfalls but they’re not wiling to be the leader with their money. This is completely incongruent.

Luckily, being a loyal steward of your finances does NOT need to be time-consuming or complicated. It DOES require willingness to BE with and work through whatever stories, tapes and beliefs have been running the show of money avoidance until now.

A few of my non-negotiable money management practices include:

  • Consistent saving, no matter what
  • Having separate bank accounts for personal and business
  • Tracking all money that comes in and goes out (hint: have someone do this for you and give you the numbers)
  • Looking at my numbers, every day, week, month, year
  • Using a money planner to CHOOSE exactly where my money goes (rather than a soul-sucking budget)

As you begin to magnetize money in surplus these get easier, more comfortable, and a lot more exciting.

Step 5: Ground your BE-ing with behavior that magnetizes money

I know we’re talking about the energetics of becoming a money magnet here, but it’s not enough to know the metaphysical principles and what you’re “supposed” to do.

Knowledge and understanding are two different things.

To become a money magnet, to BE the one who lives in surplus, you have to rewire the deeply ingrained neural pathways that dictate your behavior when it comes to money and dramatically shift how you’re showing up on the physical plane.

So how do you do this?

Truthfully, this is a longer conversation than this blog post can take on. It’s one of the reasons I created my newest program, Be A Money Magnet. So that I could teach you “the how” of magnetizing money in a whole new way.

That said, I will dive into this topic more over the next few weeks.

The short answer is you ground your BE-ing by working intentionally and consistently with specific transformational and magical practices that support you adopting new behavior that magnetizes money.

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So now it’s your turn to decide.

Are YOU going to learn to master the art of living in the overflow ….or not?

I’m not here to convince you, BUT I will say that if true freedom is what you came here for, consciously creating SURPLUS is where you want to focus your energy.

If you’re with me, stay tuned!

You’re going to LOVE what I’ll be sharing over the next bit, both here on the blog and my Facebook page.

In the meantime, drop me a comment so I know if you’re coming along for the ride.

 

 

My New Direction (And Your Free Gift)

Have you noticed something different in my world over the past couple of months?

A rather big change took place in January, but I never really announced it.  🙂

I launched  a brand new website… and with it, a bold new direction.

After 8 years as a master business coach, I’m coming forward with my true calling…

…to teach you the art of magic and manifestation, for personal and financial empowerment.

Truthfully, this direction is nothing new.  I got the “cosmic 2×4” from the Goddess years ago to make teaching magic the focus of my life.  And for years I’ve been working the teachings into my business coaching, behind the scenes.

At the end of last year, it became clear that now is the time to lead with this powerful work, not hide it in the background.

And that’s what I’m doing.   Woo hoo!!

I’m SO excited to finally share with you some of the magical and energetic tools that have been behind my success.

To that end, I want to be sure you download this…

The Only 4 Manifesting Tools You’ll Ever Need To Call In Your Every Desire

Over the years I’ve noticed that people get REALLY confused about what they need to amp up their manifesting abilities.

“Your thoughts create your reality” is accurate… but incomplete.

Candles, crystals, vision boards and the like can be powerful tools… but they can also be worthless to you.

You already have everything you need inside you to create ANYTHING you truly Desire in the world.

(I’m talking about soul-level Desires… those things that are truly in alignment with your path.  And yes, things like a new house or new car can be among them.)

BUT… you have to understand the RIGHT tools… and you have to understand how to use them.

That’s why I created this PDF download and the video that goes with it.  So you can get clear on how you’re creating all the time, right now… and how to use these tools to create what you want.

You can download them here:

The Only 4 Manifesting Tools You’ll Ever Need To Call In Your Every Desire

I am so excited to continue our journey together in this new way.  From the bottom of my heart, thank you for being a part of the Feminine Magic® community.

Love & magic,

PS: When you download the 4 Manifesting Tools cheat sheet, you’ll receive an invitation for my workshop on how to manifest your juiciest goals in 30 days or less.  Don’t miss it!

When – And How – To Go For Something Bigger

Are you frustrated because those manifesting goals are just NOT happening?

Do you go for what seem to be “easy” Desires, and then… nothing?

I feel you.  The #1 question I hear when it comes to manifesting is some form of…  “why is it NOT working?”

Here’s the good news…

If you have a clear and well-demonstrated framework for manifesting (such as my Core Manifesting Process) and your Desires aren’t showing up… there is always a reason.  Always.

But it might not be what you think.  Your manifesting goal might not be BIG enough.

Yes, I’m going to talk BIG for a second.

I know it’s not always popular, what with so much focus in the entrepreneurial / manifesting / co-creation world on slowing down, self care, being in your feminine and recovering from over-achievement.

In my early business coaching days, the buzzword (buzzphrase?) was “ease and grace.”  🙂

And… I get it.  (Hey, my brand is Feminine Magic®, after all.)

But here’s the thing…

Our nature is expansion.  “Bigness” is in your spiritual DNA.

Unfortunately, almost all of us get conditioned from an early age to put a lid on Desire, to keep that expansive nature in check.

And so we do. Or we fall into the trap of ambition – chasing egoic desires and other people’s plans for us – then wake up, discover how unhappy we are, and scale back.

We go for what we think we can have, what we are allowed to have, what someone else said we should want… rather than what is truly the Desire of our heart.  And then we wonder why we’re NOT calling it in!

Often we assume that if the Desire is not materializing… it must be “too big.”

However, goals that are too SMALL are just as likely to make you feel like you’re banging your head against the wall.

I’ll use myself as an example.

For three years, I ran a training program for entrepreneurs, Goddess Business School®.  Our clients loved it.  They got extraordinary results.  Many said it was the best business program they’d ever taken.

Over the course of 3 years, we had about 250 people enroll in Goddess Business School®.  It was a 7-figure revenue stream and a phenomenal success.

So WHY did we have SUCH a challenge setting up ongoing lead generation for it?  Why did filling it feel like SUCH a drain?

Because at the end of the day, the goal of [X] number of people in Goddess Business School® was too small a goal for me.

For me, even the idea of getting 500 people per year in a high-end coaching program feels small.  Why?  Because the coaching business model is simply not the appropriate container for what I’m here to do!

Of course there’s nothing wrong with the coaching business model.  “Big” is relative – I know leaders with 8-figure businesses who are playing a big game and are right on purpose!  But it was never meant to be my game.

The minute I gave myself permission to release that goal and embrace the what I truly wish my business to be – including the size – all of the pieces have been falling into place at a furious pace, sometimes so quickly that I feel like I can’t keep up.

So how about you?  Is there something you’ve been beating your head against the wall about, trying to “make happen?”

Here are a few signs that it could be time to UP your manifesting goal…

  • You’re bored. Really bored. Your resistance is off the charts, and not in that oh-sh*t-what-if-XYZ-happens kind of way, but in that would-rather-stick-hot-pokers-into-my-eyes-than-do-PDQ-because-I’m-bored-to-tears kind of way.
  • You’re feeling constricted. Your goal feels “tight,” like you have no wiggle room for being surprised and delighted by the Universe.  You can see only “one way” in front of you and it’s hard to access (or get excited about) other possibilities.
  • Zero inspiration. All of your aligned actions are “been there, done that.”  You’re receiving NO or next-to-NO intuitive hits or nudges about what actions to take next.  You appear to have no opportunities.
  • Your Desires are not manifesting, the goods are not showing up, you’re not meeting your goals. The eagle has not landed, and appears to be nowhere in sight.

Does this resonate?

Here’s how to find – and call in! –  the Desire that is the perfect right size for you, right now:

1. Release the floodgates – a.k.a. your Truth.

Think about whatever you’re going for right now.  I’ll wait.

Ok.  Now ask yourself this zinger from David Neagle

“If other people’s thoughts, judgments and opinions didn’t matter… would you still want the same thing?”

It’s a useful question to ask on a regular basis.  Because as a beautiful human, you’re going to pick stuff up from other people – including “shoulds” about what you want!

Years ago I mentored with a woman who had a dream of creating a coaching organization on the scale of $10 million or more. I fell into the dream because it matched my idea of BIG at the time.  I was already a good 2 years in before I realized the dream wasn’t mine.

There is no judgment here.  We get inklings of what we want (and permission to have what we want) by leaning into what OTHERS want.  It’s part of learning, growing, and being alive.  Which is all the more reason why discernment is needed.

What is the true Desire of YOUR heart?  Big or small, the Desire that will make you happy is the one that is really yours to begin with.

2. Say YES.

At the risk of repeating myself… 🙂

If you have a Desire, and it’s coming from the pure place inside of you – your Higher Self, your Essence – then the WAY for it to be made manifest is in your world already.

Everything you Desire is already here.  But it won’t show up until you make a DECISION that you are having it.

You won’t even begin to see it – or the opportunity that can bring it to you – until you say yes.

This is where your faith comes in.  Faith is one of your 4 magical tools.  Use your faith to make your belief in the Desire bigger than your belief in the circumstances you see in front of you.

3. Forget about the “chunking down.”

I’m going out on a limb with this one.

Conventional coaching wisdom (that I’ve shared many times myself) says… if the goal feels too big or out of reach, “chunk it down” to make it something more manageable.

But that doesn’t really leave room for the BIG miracles, does it?  Why no, it does not!

Now, I’m not saying to NEVER “chunk down.”  IF you’re stretched to the point of abstraction (i.e., the goal doesn’t feel real)… chunking down may make sense so that you can wrap your mental arms around it, so to speak.

But instead of the conditioned response of shrinking-to-fit… I invite you to try on accepting what you REALLY want as not only possible, but inevitable.

As my good friend Justin says, “I don’t have to believe it before I create it.”  (A contrarian with a heart of gold, that Justin.)

It’s already here.  You can have it now.   How do you call it in now?   Begin by acknowledging that it’s here in the first place.

4. Bring yourself into energetic alignment with what you want.

This is NOT just about “raising your vibration” or visualizing.

This is about embodying on ALL levels – mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, somatic, and your actions – the energy of the one that has it now.

Different personal growth masters say this in different ways.  Study them, and you will begin to notice that this is the secret sauce to calling in what you want with lightening speed.

(The “how” of this is at the heart of all of our manifesting training programs.)

The #1 reason why people don’t create what they want is because they don’t know what they want… or don’t give themselves permission to say YES to what they want.

These 4 steps will help you go for BIGGER – if that’s in alignment for you.

And if it’s not, they will help you get clear on what is true for you.

Here’s to saying YES to all of your most meaningful dreams!