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Our Top 10 Manifesting Resources To Boost Your New Moon Magic (Plus Our Ritual Replay!)

Earlier this week we sat in virtual circle for our very first EVER New Moon Ritual as a community-at-large. 

Were you there?  

We had 80+ Goddesses (and a few Adonises) join us in circle right out the gate. Wow! 

It was a truly humbling and very pivotal moment for us over here at Feminine Magic® HQ. 

It represents the unfolding of my long-time Desire. What I know to be a huge part of my purpose on the planet— To make manifesting a widely used and well-known daily practice, like meditation or yoga.  

So… this marks the first of many New Moon Rituals we’ll have together as a community and there is wayyyy more ritual and magic on its way to you. 

We’re actually in top secret R&D mode on something very, very special as we speak. 

Anyhow, if you missed the New Moon Ritual, you can watch the replay right here. There’s still time to benefit from the powerful energies present for a few more days.   

The New Moon in Libra officially arrived on Thursday, October 19th at 12:12 PM PT /3:12 PM ET however, you can work with its energy for up to 3 days before and 3 days after its appearance.   

Watch the Feminine Magic® New Moon Ritual replay right here

And… with deep gratitude to those who sat in circle… and to energize the unfolding of your Desires (whether you were able to join us live or not), here are 10 more amazing manifesting resources we’ve created over the past bit that will boost your New Moon magic: 

To activate your natural ability to manifest on command” and create miracles every day 

  1. The Only 4 Manifesting Tools You’ll Ever Need To Call In Everything You Desire 
  2. The Core Manifesting Process: 7 Steps To Manifesting Any Outcome Every Time 


To create or amplify your daily manifesting practices…  

  1. 10 Ways To Raise Your Vibration In 5 Minutes Or Less 
  2. The 30-Day Manifesting Game Plan: A Simple Practice To Begin Manifesting Your Desires In 30 Days Or Less 
  3. A Fire Bowl Releasing Ritual To Make Way For Your Highest Good 
  4. Join us on Facebook for Essential Oil Magic (a special group where I share all about my secret manifesting weapon and how to use oils in  your manifesting practice) 


And to troubleshoot your manifesting (because if it hasnt happened yet or if drama is afoot— theres always a reason) 

  1. What To Do When Your Manifestations Aren’t Showing Up  
  2. Why “Divine Timing” Is A Myth 
  3. You’re Upleveling… So Why Do You Feel Like Crap? 
  4. 3 Manifesting Habits You Must Master To Create Money On Command 

May these articles, practices and tools serve to energize the intentions you’ve set this New Moon and beyond.  

PS: Please join us next month for our New Moon in Scorpio Ritual on Tuesday, November 21st at 1 PM PT / 4 PM ET. Put the date in your calendar now. 

And until then, drop me a comment to share what you’re calling this New Moon cycle so we can hold a vision of your success.   

Bright Blessings! 

Circle With Us This New Moon (special invitation)

School of Manifesting

Behind the scenes in The Feminine Magic® School of Manifesting, we’ve been gathering every New Moon. 

Over the past year, these circles have been THE place for our clients to re-connect with their Desires and activate their monthly manifesting goals.  

This month were hosting our New Moon Ritual on Wednesday, October 18th at 1 pm PT / 4 PM ET (time-zone converter) 

And for the first time, the entire Feminine Magic® community is invited. 

You can join us right here, LIVE on my Facebook Business Page — woot woot!! 

If you’re calling in something juicy, these new moon rituals are powerful! 

We’ve had clients manifest all sorts of amazing things, after clarifying their intentions and taking the aligned actions they received while sharing space. (Think dream clients, new jobs, new homes even.)  

These New Moon circles have been so transformational, and healing in so many ways.  I knew I had to open the circle wider, to our entire community.  

You’re invited! 

Our rituals generally last about an hour to 75 minutes, and are designed to help you align with and direct the natural energies present at the time of the new moon.  

If you don’t know very much about the power of the New Moon, just know that it is the ideal time to call in something newand stay tuned. Were working on a new free resource to support you in the coming months.  

Meantime, a really great resource to prepare you for our New Moon ritual is this — a refresher possibly— and a really important one. 

Download The Laws of Desires:10 Truths That Empower You To Be, Do or Have What You Truly Want.

Sitting in circle, we’ll clear out what no longer serves, honor any cycles or patterns that are ready to be released and energize your intentions for this month to manifest from a space of new beginnings… and to truly do that, you have to be willing to move forward and reach for the Truth.  

So, in preparation for Wednesday’s New Moon ritual, spend some time with the Laws of Desire.

And be sure to put the date and time, Wednesday, October 18th at 1 PM PT / 4 PM ET, in your calendar now.   

I’ll see you then!  


PS: Is there anyone in your world who would benefit from this New Moon Ritual?  Please extend this invitation to them.  

It’s all going down on my business Facebook page at 1 PM PT / 4 PM ET on Wednesday.  
See you there!  


My Top 10 Essential Oils For Magical Travel

Do you find yourself drawn to travel?  Do you have a case of wanderlust? 

The Gold Coast, Peru, Bali, Italy, Hawaii… Australia…. the women of our Feminine Magic® community are of the world, and are called to see the world! 

So here’s a shocker… (not!) … I’m no different.

I’ve been traveling to attend retreats, conferences and ceremonies for years. I’ve hosted retreats up and down the beautiful West Coast.  And just this year we traveled as a family to Maine, I’ve ventured solo to Belfast, Ireland twice, to California 3 times and I’m off to my longtime former home, New York City, in just a couple of weeks. 

(I was also due to go to Necker Island to hang with Richard Branson, but due to the

hurricanes, our trip got postponed. Please hold the people of the British Virgin Islands in your heart; they’re in pretty bad shape down there. xoxoxoxox) 

Travel is a powerful catalyst for transformation for successful, ambitious women.  It gets you out of your home frequency, and stretches your mind. 

It creates an environment like no other to shift who you’re BE-ing and uplevel your desired energetic state in a visceral way.   

And whether you’re traveling for pleasure, a retreat, spiritual growth, a mastermind or training, travel is a natural way to raise your frequency…and essential oils are the perfect magical travel companion.  


Because they offer a similar effect— an instant and dramatic change in state that heightens and grounds your travel experiences.   

They also have a whole host of wellness benefits that can’t be beat while traveling.  Fatigue, headaches, dealing with germ-central environments like airports, jet lag, exposure to foreign (to you) bacteria. 


Of course you can use them in your manifesting rituals along the way! 

If you’re looking for a few simple rituals to take on the road, I offered up 3 manifesting with essential oil rituals last week.  

Check out: My Manifesting Secret Weapon

There are a few more essential oil based rituals for receiving over here.

Finally (and most exciting to share!!), I’ll be offering up even more travel-friendly manifesting  practices and rituals over in my new private Facebook group, Essential Oil Magic. So join us! 🙂 


Here are the 10 essential oils that I always take with me for magical travel and why… 

1. Frankincense is the POWERHOUSE of magical oils. It known as “God in a bottle” and  is regarded as a strong spiritual conduit to God (and Goddess) with an overall masculine energy. It really can be used for anything but it’s my quick go-to for deepening my connection to Essence and embodying the energy of peace and relaxation. I also reach for ‘Frank’ for purification and to enhance the overall energy of my magical work. You can also apply this to the bottom of your feet to balance moods and maintain overall wellness while on the road.

TIP: If you’re looking for a strong feminine counterpart, grab Myrrh! 😉  

2. Lemon is great for detoxing and can be used for both literal and spiritual cleansing. One of the simplest essential oil practices is using lemon in your water like I do daily. When I’m traveling I’m able to skip the sugary, flavored drinks in most restaurants by jazzing up my water with a few drops of lemon instead. It’s like a mini flush for your entire system that also opens and uplifts the spirit.  

 3. Lavender is one of the most popular essential oils for good reason. It possesses calming and intuitive properties and imbues the energy of happiness, peace, comfort, and companionship. Use a few drops of lavender to help you relax and get some shut eye on those long flights and before morning meditation.  

4. OnGuard (a doTERRA® blend) always makes the packing list because its proprietary blend strengthens the immune system (perfect for airports and germ-y airplanes), and it’s also ideal for protection and establishing boundaries which is often needed when venturing to new environments with unfamiliar people. OnGuard contains clove, a strong cleansing oil for your physical body and spirit. I take this one internally while on the road and at home and often add a few drops to  fractionated coconut oil or my hotel hand soap to make an easy hand sanitizer.  

5. Peppermint essential oil creates lightness of spirit – something we all need while on the road.  It also cuts brain fog and stimulates alertness, making it perfect for jet lag. Peppermint can also be used to freshen breath, soothe an upset tummy, and support the respiratory system. I love to pop a drop in my mouth and inhale deeply, letting my heart and mind lift gently before I head out for the adventures of the day. 

6. Breathe (a doTERRA® blend) clears the air. I keep it on hand to keep the sniffles at bay if I do feel a cold or allergies setting it. This blend contains Ravensara leaf, another oil that is known for its  protecting, cleansing, and healing properties. (If you’re noticing a trend here it’s because transformation requires a whole lot of letting go and releasing).  

7. Melaleuca, also known as “tea tree” oil comes with me for clearing, cosmetics and cuts. It’s perfect to dab on blemishes (who else has skin that freaks out when traveling?) or minor cuts and hang nails to keep them clean until I can apply a bandaid. I also use to clear any negative energies in new or unfamiliar spaces. A few drops in a spray bottle with water works… or you can travel with your diffuser like I do sometimes. Melaleuca is also a decongestant, clearing energy blocks or body toxins you want to release. 

8. Wild Orange is the oil of abundance. That pretty much says it all. We travel to expand and to open our eyes to the abundant nature of our world. This is one of my all time favorites at home too. I drink it daily (in water, like lemon) and to use it aromatically to literally breathe in abundance.  I put Wild Orange in everything!  Rub a drop or 2 of wild orange with equal parts peppermint and frankincense in your palms and then inhale deeply for energizing boost of creativity and inspiration. 🙂  

9. Forgive (a doTERRA® blend) helps release the weight of guilt, doubt, anger…basically any low frequency energy that keeps you from moving forward. I have this one in a rollerball for fast application and will anoint my wrists or heart chakra when a something presents to be forgiven. Like the “mom guilt” that sometimes creeps in when you’re on the road missing your loves at home, but know it’s for a greater good.  

10. Purify (a doTERRA® blend) is also a powerful oil for clearing and cleansing. Again, use this oil in a spray bottle or diffuser to clear yourself of any negative energies, old thought patterns or emotions that no longer serve. And to combat odors (stuffy hotel rooms) and germs. Just add a few drops to a cotton ball and stick it in the air vents of cars or small rooms.  

And because I couldn’t actually stop at 10, here are two bonus oils for you. 

11. Motivate (a doTERRA® blend) will cleanse negative emotions like guilt or pessimism and replace them with feelings of confidence, courage, and belief. When traveling, I bring this one, usually in a rollerball, to help me embrace new experiences. Perfect for moving through fears to cross items off your bucket list. You can also anoint your temples for focus and the back of the neck for confidence before speaking.  

12. Passion (a doTERRA® blend) helps you consciously create the highly magnetic energy of passion. I love it for business retreats to help you rekindle feelings of excitement about your work and to reconnect to your vision. Place few drops in your bath water or on hand towel placed (carefully) on the shower floor will set you up powerfully for a day of creative brainstorming or strategy.  

So those are my personal favorites to take on the road.   

But remember, you won’t get the benefits if you just toss them into your luggage or overnight bag and call it a day! 

To use oils effectively for magical travel, you’ll have to be a little more intentional.  

Instead, pack some easy manifesting rituals and a simple protocol that’s hand-selected for your journey.  You don’t have to do a ton research to set yourself up because I’ve got you covered.  

Check out the articles linked earlier in this article, and if you’re ready to up your manifesting game – even while on the road! – check out my latest 14-day manifesting journey, Manifesting With Essential Oils. 

You’ll learn all about how to use essential oils to stabilize your emotions, and a LIVE 14-day guided journeyto become a vibrational match to the success you want, with the help of essential oils. 

If you have transformative travel on the horizon and want to amplify the impact of your trip working with essential oils… join us! 

Get the full scoop, and register right here  

PS: The doors close on Monday!! If you’re in, drop me a comment below 🙂  

My Manifesting Secret Weapon

As a practicing Wiccan priestess for the last twenty years, my manifesting toolkit runs deep. 

I love me some magical tools, I do.  (Crystals, candles, tarot decks, etc.) 

But there is one tool, in particular, that I’ve found to truly dial up the results of my magical workings.  I lovingly refer to it as my manifesting secret weapon. 

Can you guess?  🙂 

This is something I LOVE to share so I won’t keep you in suspense.  

My manifesting secret weapon is high quality essential oils.  

Certified therapeutic grade in fact. The best out there in my opinion.

It might surprise you to know this, but essential oils are one of THE most powerful tools available to you for empowerment and conscious co-creation. What’s even cooler is that they work in seconds with only a few drops.  

Yes, really. 

They’re being talked about more and more these days, but they’re not a fad by any means.  

Magicians, priestesses, healers and wise women from different cultures around the world have used essential oils for healing, ceremonies, magical workings and in ritual for centuries. 

One of the reasons I love oils so much that they offer benefits in so many facets of well-being— from physical health, to relaxation, to beauty, to spiritual practice and emotional support.   

They truly are a gift from Mother Earth.  

And when it comes to manifesting your big dreams, goals and visions… I call them a “secret weapon” because they are sooooo effective at shifting the ONE thing (more than anything) that determines your success: 

Your STATE.   Your energetic imprint.  Your vibrational signature. 

In other words, “who you BE” on all levels: physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, and beyond. 

You can pop over to last week’s article, “Stop Working On Your Mindset And Do This” to understand on why your BE-ing is so important, but in a nutshell, managing your state and BE-ing is the way to call in what you want.  

You have to become a vibrational match to that which you Desire…to BE an energetic match to want. Because that’s how you can you can access the version of yourself who can see the opportunities and take the aligned actions required to call things into your life with ease. 

Can essential oils help you BE that person? 

You better believe they can… and really quickly too.  

When I started using high quality essential oils really consistently, I saw transformation blossom in areas of my life where growth and progress had plateaued.  

What’s important to understand though, is that I wasn’t using any old brand off the shelf at Whole Foods, or using them here and there like many people do.  


I only experienced massive (and lasting) changes when I was introduced to what I consider to be the purest oils out there and began using them in a daily protocol. One designed specifically to help me step into the energetic state I needed to embody. 

By implementing my  daily essential oil protocol, I’ve used oils to help manifest results like … 

  • Losing over 25 lbs of excess weight (yes, I have more to go… but that is an amazing start) 
  • Transforming my moods (before my daily oil protocol, every day was another “downward spiral” – not exactly a good time for an entrepreneurial Goddess on a mission) 
  • Banishing “brain fog” and cultivating mental clarity 
  • Shifting longtime habits and patterns. (Essential oils are the perfect compliment to my favorite transformational modalities, including energy healing, neuro-linguistic programming, change work, and coaching.) 
  • Dialing up my natural feminine radiance 
  • Staying centered, grounded and in a high vibration while running a 7-figure company with a pre-schooler in tow 
  • Seeing bigger and faster results with with my rituals and magical workings – obviously 😉  

My oils protocol also helped me create change in other really important areas of my life too including mastering turning off my “busy brain” for more rejuvenating sleep each night and building a deeper bond with my daughter (she loves oils, and our nightly routine). 

They’ve taken what I know about creating empowered states and skyrocketed my results.  

I could go on and on, truly. 

Essential oils have fast become the most powerful manifesting tool I work with, alongside The Core Manifesting Process and the 30 Day Manifesting Game Plan, I teach in Feminine Magic®, of course.  

But WHY are oils so effective in raising your vibration and creating empowered states? 

That’s a little lengthy for this article so here’s the short story:  

Every essential oil is vibrationally aligned to a particular emotional state.  

To cultivate joy, forgiveness, peace, assertiveness, clarity, etc. There’s an oil (or 3) for that. Which means… you can literally select an oil to align to the energy of any embodied state you wish to create.  

For example… 

  • Lavender oil is a vibrational match to the energy of relaxation and calm. It’s the perfect oil to work with when you Desire to move through a challenging day with grace and ease. 


  • If you want to access the positivity in any situation or to hold your boundaries in a chaotic environment, Cedarwood is one of my favorites.  It’s also the oil of the Great Mother archetyple. 


  • If you wish to embody compassion and radiate love,  Rose oil is an amazing choice. 


  • To amplify abundance,  work with my go-to, Wild Orange. (Seriously – I put this in everything.  Almost every diffuser blend, and I drink it all day long in my water, too.) 


  • If you wish to to deepen your connection to your inner wisdom, Frankincense is lovingly known as God(dess) in a bottle.  


So how do you use them? 

It’s really (really) simple. You just need to have them in your environment.  

Even without opening the bottle their vibrational frequency raises that of anyone around them. 

Of course, you’ll have even more magical results when you do pop the top and you can use them in ritual, or not, aromatically, topically and, in some cases, internally.  

I share many of my favorite oil uses in my Essential Oil Magic Facebook group.

And here are 3 easy essential oils rituals to add to your manifesting practices to get you started…

Mini Ritual #1: Amplify Your Intentions  

To amplify and stay connected to your intentions each day… 

Here’s what to do: 

  1. Upon waking, set a clear intention for your day.  
  2. While enjoying your morning tea / water / beverage of choice (mine is water with lemon essential oil)”, do a quick Google search for “essential oils for [your chosen intention]”.
    YES, really! Just Google it! This info is readily available and there are a many great reference books you can add to your library you don’t want to hop online. I have several from Visit 
  3. Place a few drops of the appropriate oil(s) for your intention into your diffuser. There may be more than one oil that resonates. For example, both peppermint and basil are oils you can work with if your intention is to embrace change and new habits.  
  4. Before fully launching into your day take a few moments to close your eyes and connect with the version of yourself who is fully embodying and moving about her day as you have set an intention to.  
  5. Open your eyes an declare, “It is done!’   

(And it is!)  

 Ritual #2: Embody Your Expectations 

To embody and step into the experience of already having your desires fulfilled… 

Here’s what to do:  

  1. Close your eyes, take several deep breaths and connect to your higher self or Essence.  
  2. Next, bring the outcome you Desire to mind.  
  3. Now consciously create the energy of expectation, the experience of already having that outcome manifested right here in the physical.  
  4. Play in that energy for as long as you wish, really dialing it up and feeling the feels — the joy, excitement and gratitude of having your Desire right now.  
  5. Finally open your eyes and anoint your wrists and heart chakra with any of these oils of celebration to carry the energy of expectant gratitude throughout the day: Bergamot, Ylang Ylang, Ginger. (I love using blends for this practice. Either “Cheer” or “Citrus Bliss” by dōTERRA).

Ritual #3: Confidently Take Aligned Action  

To bust up anxiety and confidently take action to call in what you want… 

Here’s what to do: 

  1. Connect with your Essence and ask her to show you your next aligned actions and how you can take them with confidence.  
  2. In your journal or on a fresh sheet of paper, write out every that action step comes through.   
  3. When you feel complete, choose the first action you feel called to take and on a fresh page, write as much as you wish in your journal about taking that action with ease, confidence and joy, as if you’ve already taken it.
  4. Upon finishing your journal entry, anoint your solar plexus and your journal page with any of these confidence imbuing oils— Cypress, Fennel, Ginger, Grapefruit, Jasmine.  
  5. With your confidence revved up, immediately take aligned action.  
  6. Celebrate and repeat!  



These 3 rituals are just the teeny tiny tip of the iceberg when it comes to manifesting with essential oils. Or rather, beautiful hilltop where many oils are harvested. 

Soooo…naturally I’m called to show more and more women in our community how to use them along side my well-tested process for manifesting consistently.  

I know they work in tandem as a catalyst to create even bigger results.

Which is why I’ve created a unique 14-day manifesting journey for you…  

Manifesting With Essential Oils 

I created this special program to teach you how to use The Core Manifesting Process we use in The Feminine Magic® School of Manifesting along with an essential oils protocol designed to amp up your manifesting abilities.  

You’ll learn the most effective process I know for consistently calling in your Desire and how to put that process into action, powerfully, working with essential oils.  

When you join us, you’ll get these juicy resources:   

▪The Core Manifesting Process – my well-demonstrated method for manifesting on command 

▪Essential oils protocol for all things manifesting success: clearing blocks, releasing toxic emotions, shifting patterns, fuelling your subconscious, taking aligned action and more 

▪Two in depth manifesting audio classes (you’ll get these as soon as you join the FB group) 

▪14-day guided journey to become a vibrational match to the success you want, with the help of essential oils. Including rituals, recipes, practices, etc.  (We start this LIVE in October.) 

▪Access to Private Facebook group just for members of the program – a high-vibe environment where you can connect with other success-minded women 

Yep… all kinds of awesome, right?… And how much does it cost? 

That’s actually the best part. 

If you’re new to essential oil brand I personally use and love, dōTERRA, Manifesting With Essential Oils is yours FREE, as my gift to you with a qualifying essential oils purchase.  

 When you purchase my absolute favorite oil kit for manifesting, The Emotional Aromatherapy Diffused enrollment kit, you’ll receive 6 perfectly selected essential oil blends that are ideal for managing emotions and your energetic state, a diffuser  

AND access to Manifesting With Essential Oils for free.  

The kit is $195 wholesale or about $260 retail.  

Don’t worry… my peeps pay wholesale!! 

Go here for all of the details and to purchase your kit wholesale 

And if you’re already in our dōTERRA family, you can enroll in Manifesting With Essential Oils just $197 right here.  

We start our LIVE guided journey very soon, so you’re going to want to order NOW so that you have your oils and can get all settled in.  You’ll get the two audio classes immediately on registering so you can dive in right away. 

So join us!! 

If you’re new to dōTERRA, click here for details on how to purchase your oils and join us in Manifesting with Essential Oils for free 

And if you’re already a dōTERRA customer or WellnessAdvocate…enroll here for  $197

Have questions or need some extra guidance? Simply email our team at 

How do YOU use essential oils to manifest your dreams?  Drop me a comment below… 

And let me know if you’re going to be joining us for Manifesting with Essential Oils!   

Stop Working On Your Mindset

In the world of manifestation and personal growth, mindset work is really popular. 

You’ve got to work on your mindset because your thoughts create your reality. 


Which means you’re just one [rainbows / puppies / gummy bears] thought away from what you truly Desire. 


Except… you’ve been working on your mindset and nothing is really changing…  

Ever wonder WHY that is? 

Early in my magical studies, I noticed that some people would get desired results from their spells and workings… and others didn’t.   Later on, I noticed the same thing happening in the personal development world.   

Sometimes the transformational modality (coaching, energy healing, etc) quote-unquote “worked,” and sometimes not. 

By the time I was downloading Feminine Magic®, 5, 6, 7 years ago…  “mindset” work was EVERYWHERE. 

And I started to pay attention… in that witchy engineer sort of way. 

In myself, I noticed a couple of things.  A big one was that controlling my thoughts was next to impossible.  Meditating helped, but only so much. 

Then I started noticing what was going on with other people; namely, my clients. 

When they focused on mindset, and shifting their thoughts… they only went farther down the rabbit hole.  They would spend a LOT of time rooting around in their “mindset,” and not enough time in activities that would bring them closer to their dreams and goals. 

Meanwhile, this idea that “your thoughts create your reality” prevailed in the collective consciousness. 

And it’s accurate, of course.  My reality DID reflect my thoughts, pretty much, by and large.  The same is probably true for you. 

The problem is, “our thoughts create our reality” is incomplete. 

We are NOT our thoughts. 

We are NOT our emotional states. 

And come to think of it… 

We are NOT our bodies. 

We are NOT our behaviors. 

We are NOT even… our spirits or souls. 

We are ALL Of them.  And so much more. 

All of these – thoughts / emotions / body / energy systems / spirit / environment / actions –  contribute to the BE-ing that is… YOU.   

Your energetic imprint.  Your vibration. 

I found another word for this via an old Tony Robbins video.  There I was, up late perusing YouTube, simultaneously vegging out AND looking for inspiration.  (Come on – I know you do it too.  😉 )  

“What’s the #1 thing that affects people’s results?” an interviewer asked Tony, who must’ve been 5 years old at the time.  (If you’ve seen the old videos you know what I’m talking about.) 

Without missing a beat, he said… “Their STATE.” 

In other words… 

Your thoughts. 

Your emotions. 

Your physical body. 

The energy systems running through your body. 

Your higher self, aka Spirit, Soul, Essence. 

Your environment. 

Your actions. 

Okay, so WHY is this so important?  Because it gives you soooo many more ways to shift. 

Instead of focusing on your thoughts, you can change your emotions.  Want to drift toward what you want automatically, in spite of yourself, in a way that you can’t turn off?  Change your environment to be in alignment with that you want. 

Soooo much easier than focusing on thoughts!! 

Deepening the picture of what’s REALLY going on always gives us more options.  “More options” == “good” when it comes to manifesting. 

Yes, your thoughts and thinking have a massive effect on the others.  Because your BRAIN has a massive affect on all the others. 

But make no mistake – the others ALL affect your brain, too.

Tweak one, the others will change.  Your vibration will change.  Your energetic imprint will change. 

Now here’s another thing about reality-makin’… 

What happens when you focus your attention on something? 

It grows.  Expands.  Manifests. 

The same thing happened in my earliest magical workings.  What we gave our energy to, and what we would DIRECT our energy toward, both in AND out of the “spell”… would manifest. 

It’s pretty easy to raise power and direct power at any one time.  It’s pretty easy to generate energy over a few minutes.  A little harder to sustain it longer, but of course it can be done.  

What maintains that energy after the working is over? 

I’ll give you three guesses and the first two don’t count… 😀  

Your STATE.  Your thoughts / emotions / physical body / energy systems / spiritual connection / environment and actions.  

What creates transformation or calls in your Desires isn’t the thoughts you think.  It’s the energy you impress on creative substance that determines what comes back to you on the physical plane.  

In other words, our power to create comes from a place that’s deeper than thought.  

Thoughts are merely another form of energy.  What you energize (give your energy to), manifests. 

And by the way, your beliefs don’t matter quite as much as you think either.  

In fact, beliefs are merely a symptom of what’s going on underneath our whole neurological wiring as humans.  

A “belief” is merely a generalization about a relationship between experiences. 

In other words, our mindsets are generally just a description of how we perceive the experiences we’ve been living. 

Because the strongest instinct we have is to replicate what came before, and because your brain WILL do it unconsciously… you look around at what’s in front of you and go, “Oh, I must have a belief that I’m not good enough.”  Or “there’s not enough” or whatever the heck it is. 

The belief is the meaning your mind has made for a state that your critter brain has figured (a long time ago) that you can “survive.” 

Your critter brain is more interested in maintaining a survivable state than anything else.   And that’s why working on your mindset isn’t, well…working.   

Because it’s not really the beliefs, it’s the STATE that your mind has a vested interest in keeping around.  And until you change your state, in one way or another… it’s going to stick around.

So what do you do instead? 

The answer to that is… what would you like? 

What do you WANT, Goddess?  What do you Desire?  What do you wish for?  What do you want instead? 

You create what you want by focusing on the OUTCOME, love.  Over and over again. 

Reach for what you Desire more. 

Focusing on the outcome means bringing your attention BACK to the outcome.  Back to your Desire.  No matter what.  Because your thoughts, feelings and perceptions are not Truth.  It’s what you ENERGIZE that’s gonna manifest. 

The outcome, in this context, also relates to who you BE. It requires focusing on who you have to become to have whatever it is you’re trying to create or experience, including the aligned actions that She who already has it would be taking to make it so. 

Interestingly enough, it’s from this place of embodiment that it’s actually very useful to consider your mindset and look at your thoughts.  

Because when you begin to practice the new vibration you need to hold within yourself and begin to take aligned action from that place to call things in, that’s when your critter brain will start to freak out.

At that point you can shift into, what I call witness consciousness or observer mode and examine the narratives and stories that are coming up to keep you from taking aligned action (because they will).  

If you come at mindset from that place, understanding what’s at play and what’s required to create change, it’s much easier to affect. Not because you’ll be able to shut off your thoughts, but because you’ll be conscious of them and empowered to make choices in spite of them 

Soooo… should you really stop working on your mindset? Throw all the books off the shelf?  

Not at all!!   

Our brain is powerful.  Our beliefs are powerful, in part because we create as we speak, and think.  Your mind energizes those beliefs on autopilot. 

But it is time for us to evolve beyond seeing mindset work as the be all, end all and the place that needs work.  

Your reality is a direct reflection of who you BE.  What you direct your energy towards (including your thoughts) is what will manifest. 

So direct your energy toward what you WANT.  Not the rabbit hole of mindset. 

When you do that, and shift your BE-ing to be as in alignment with that outcome as possible… you can’t help but call it (or something better) into your life, faster than you can say… it is done, it is done, it is done. 

Because when you BE as you will BE when you have what you want… guess what?  There it is. 

It is done, it is done, it is done.