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The Key Energetic Secret To Becoming A Money Magnet

Would you like to know the true secret to manifesting money in abundance?

To know what it really takes to become… a money magnet?

Then let me pull back the curtain on one of our industry’s dirtiest little secrets…

Knowing HOW manifest an income breakthrough in your business (your first – or next – 10k, 20k, 50k month) does NOT make you a money magnet, and it never solves your money problems for good.

And those “$30K in 30 days” success stories?

Nobody talks about what happens next because it’s not nearly as inspiring.

To be clear: I LOVE income breakthroughs!

It’s been my specialty for almost a decade. I’ve shown hundreds of women how to manifest money, well before it was the hot thing to teach.

And I’ve shared my own income breakthrough story since day one. When I used the Feminine Magic® Core Manifesting Process to create that first $20k month in my business, it changed everything.


I’ve also shared that after the high of that breakthrough, I still found myself in a place of not enough. That cash injection shifted me out of famine, but I still wasn’t living in time or money abundance.

Few business coaches will admit that these income breakthroughs have a downside.

YES, the energetic expansion that calls in large sums of money is life changing. YES, the experience of creating that big juicy outcome is miraculous.

AND… it’s not sustainable.

Indeed, after an income breakthrough feast often comes the famine.

Not because you can’t recreate the experience. I believe and teach that once you create a new experience, it’s yours and you can do it again.

The problem is that the new experience you’ve created teaches your squishy mind a new rule: ‘in order for me to generate money in my life or business, I have to manifest a large inflow of cash’.

Manifesting the big lump sum isn’t hard, but having to do it over and over again creates tension instead of ease, and that’s not true financial empowerment.

What is true financial empowerment?

True financial empowerment is moving beyond the “sprint” of manifesting massive inflows of income on command, and winning the “marathon” by knowing how to consistently magnetize any amount of money you desire to flow into
your life through multiple channels, including but also independent of your business.

It’s about knowing how to magnetize money in SURPLUS so that you always have more than enough money available to live life as you choose it.

So HOW do you do this?

How do you move beyond the experience of feast and famine… for good?

How do you move from “shaking the money stick” every few months to generate large sums of money… to becoming a true money magnet?

It begins with your energy and BE-ing the one who embodies the energy of surplus and truly lives in the overflow. Here’s how to do just that.

Step 1: Understand the metaphysics of money.

If you want to transform your money story permanently, and become magnetic to money instead of it controlling you…

… knowing the mechanics of business – getting clients, sales funnels, all the marketing fiddly bits that are sucking up HOURS of your time – is not enough.

Get too caught up in “the fiddly bits” and you wind up where 99.9999% of business owners live: acting out the programming that they have to work hard and trade their life force for money!

It’s not that those things are important. But it comes AFTER what money magicians and metaphysicians have always known…

90% of your money magnetism is about ENERGY; just 10% is execution.

The metaphysical laws at effect in your universe govern money too. Problem is… we live in an environment that programs us to use them in ways that are unconscious and counter-productive.

To live in the overflow, you have to go beyond the mechanics, and yes, beyond working on your “mindset”… to truly understand, energetically, how money WORKS. To bring ALL of the pieces together: the metaphysics, the mechanics AND who you BE – i.e., how you show up with money.

Step 2: Know how to sprint.

It’s not the be-all, end-all of creating wealth, but… knowing how to create massive income breakthroughs for yourself is non-negotiable.

And let’s get real … it’s also a TON of fun! 🙂

Manifesting a big juicy money goal creates the first taste of living in the overflow. Having a consistent, repeatable process for manifesting money on command in this way acclimatizes you to receiving more (and more!) money as your “new normal.”

So far, so good. But here’s the thing…

Many business owners can create a windfall or two, and then they end up right back where they started. OR they can create money only when the right “scarcity buttons” are pushed… and often not even then. (Meh – who wants that?)

Like any skill, the sprint takes practice. And like anything that’s going to completely change your life, it involves moving past the natural resistance that comes up when you move outside your comfort zone.

For “the sprint” to work consistently, you must USE it – consistently and correctly.

Step 3: Then, master the marathon.

Sprinting is great…but the stress of trying to break the world record for the 100 meter dash every month is truly exhausting.

More importantly, it does not create true surplus. The money is there and then it’s gone and YOU have to focus your time and energy to manifest it when what you desire instead is to have it consistently flow in with ease.

How do you work money magic for the LONG haul – to go the distance with flow and ease?

You need to learn how to magnetize money consistently through multiple money channels instead of relying on manifesting large sums of cash. You also need to stop viewing your business or career as the ONLY way for money to flow to you.

I KNOW for entrepreneurs this will be triggering. The problem is, thinking of your business as your ONLY money channel makes you dependent on it – just like a J.O.B.

Finally, if you have a business, you need to set it up so that it produces money consistently, NOT just when it’s time for the windfall. This means seeing your business as independent of YOU.

Of course your business is going to require your time and energy. But most coaches, practitioners and healers are in an unconscious, co-dependent relationship with their business. They are servants to their business, instead of other way around!

Living in the overflow is about magnetizing money independent of your direct actions or your business. It’s about living a life of true freedom fuelled by (mostly) passive income streams that have money working FOR you.

Step 4: Elevate how you show up with money.

“Money management” doesn’t exactly sound sexy. I know! I know! Some would rather watch paint dry than hang out with their numbers.

Thing is, magnetizing larger and larger amounts of money requires impeccable stewardship.

Many coaches, practitioners and healers want the consistent money windfalls but they’re not wiling to be the leader with their money. This is completely incongruent.

Luckily, being a loyal steward of your finances does NOT need to be time-consuming or complicated. It DOES require willingness to BE with and work through whatever stories, tapes and beliefs have been running the show of money avoidance until now.

A few of my non-negotiable money management practices include:

  • Consistent saving, no matter what
  • Having separate bank accounts for personal and business
  • Tracking all money that comes in and goes out (hint: have someone do this for you and give you the numbers)
  • Looking at my numbers, every day, week, month, year
  • Using a money planner to CHOOSE exactly where my money goes (rather than a soul-sucking budget)

As you begin to magnetize money in surplus these get easier, more comfortable, and a lot more exciting.

Step 5: Ground your BE-ing with behavior that magnetizes money

I know we’re talking about the energetics of becoming a money magnet here, but it’s not enough to know the metaphysical principles and what you’re “supposed” to do.

Knowledge and understanding are two different things.

To become a money magnet, to BE the one who lives in surplus, you have to rewire the deeply ingrained neural pathways that dictate your behavior when it comes to money and dramatically shift how you’re showing up on the physical plane.

So how do you do this?

Truthfully, this is a longer conversation than this blog post can take on. It’s one of the reasons I created my newest program, Be A Money Magnet. So that I could teach you “the how” of magnetizing money in a whole new way.

That said, I will dive into this topic more over the next few weeks.

The short answer is you ground your BE-ing by working intentionally and consistently with specific transformational and magical practices that support you adopting new behavior that magnetizes money.


So now it’s your turn to decide.

Are YOU going to learn to master the art of living in the overflow ….or not?

I’m not here to convince you, BUT I will say that if true freedom is what you came here for, consciously creating SURPLUS is where you want to focus your energy.

If you’re with me, stay tuned!

You’re going to LOVE what I’ll be sharing over the next bit, both here on the blog and my Facebook page.

In the meantime, drop me a comment so I know if you’re coming along for the ride.



How To Banish Time And Energy Vampires

Ever have one of those “I’ll have what she’s having” moments?

Years ago I went to a workshop at a wellness center in Manhattan. This was during my “dark night of the soul” period. I felt shredded – physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially.

The workshop was billed as a “spa day.” The topic was feminine energy.
This will be fun, I thought. I remember telling Leland, “I’m going to be doing my hair or something.


When the leader walked in and sat down, I was blown away.

Her power. Her presence. Her magnetism.

I’ll have what she’s having.

Within the first 5 minutes she told us the secret, without ever addressing the idea of power directly.

Boundaries. Rock-solid-yet-flexible (and-no-that’s-not-an-oxymoron) boundaries.

Most of us are empathic. Then we’re conditioned to be all things to all people. To be “nice,” to people please, to do it all, you name it.

Then add our info-overload, energetically saturated, go-go-go culture. Plus a shot of genuine, soul-led ambition (aka Desire) to the mix, and what have you got?

Massive, ongoing leaks, drains and pulls on our energy field.

We come to manifesting and magical practice and wake up to the beautiful truth that most of the limits we live with are just not true. However, here in 3D reality – we have to contend with TWO limited resources: linear time, and life force energy.

Yes, we can manage and increase our energy, but only to a point. With linear time, we all get the same amount in a day. When it’s gone, it’s gone.

Not only that… when we start to put ourselves out there, we attract energy coming AT us: love from our fans, anger from the people we’ve triggered the sh*t out of, ever-growing demands on our attention, and a LOT more.

And guess what? Those time-and-energy pulls and nips and tugs and hi-jacks only INCREASE as you amp up your light.

So what do you do? Dim your light? Hold back your purpose?

That may be your default. Defaults tend to have HUGE consequences, like dying with the music still inside you. #blunt #sorrynotsorry

How about cast a spell on whoever’s getting you down?

Nope. That’s not the solution either.

Set boundaries. Rock-solid-yet-flexible boundaries.

Boundaries are magic. Here’s the secret to shoring up yours… so you can banish those time and energy vampires for good:

Get a handle on the biggest boundary pusher of all: YOU.

I say this with love. 🙂

Boundaries all start by taking a good hard look at what you’ve been willing to tolerate. If you have unwanted people and energies in your field, understand it’s because on some level, you’ve invited them in.

Remember The Lost Boys? That (sorta) bad vampire movie from the 80’s? The vampires can’t come in unless you invite them in. #happilydatingmyself

What are you making yourself available for?

Here are just a few of the things in my life and business that I am no longer available for:

  • Coaching, healing or feedback that I didn’t ask for
  • Offers to be my coach or healer that I didn’t ask for (funny how these always include feedback that I didn’t ask for!)
  • Long, drawn-out enrollment conversations
  • Enrollment conversations with less-than-ideal clients
  • Coaching people who do not want to change
  • Payment plans on high-end programs (we are eliminating these – kudos to Leonie Dawson for the idea)
  • Late payments or missed payments on our courses and communities
  • Payment negotiations of any kind
  • Clients, vendors and team members not adhering to policies
  • Team members not documenting their work and causing chaos later
  • Inefficiency (time and money wasting)
  • Drama of any kind
  • Attention-seeking of any kind
  • Indecisiveness
  • Guilt trips
  • Power trips; passive-aggressive attempts to control or cut down
  • Time hijacking (their emergency somehow requires me to upend my whole day)

We can’t hold boundaries when we don’t know what they are. So ask yourself…

What am I available for?
What am I NOT available for?

It really helps to list this out, because most of the time, we’re running around on autopilot.

For example, recently one of our clients brought a common issue to our Facebook community: she was having dozens of 90 minute conversations with people who all said, “I’d love to… but I don’t have the money.” She was a little surprised when I suggested that she did NOT have to actually sit through calls with people who have no intention of paying her. (She’s not the first.)

After you make your lists, ask this magic question…

“What do I need to shift within myself to release, clear and banish what I am no longer available for?”

I know. I know. This is not a fun question. But it is a necessary one.

If we want the boundaries pushers to stop, we have to understand how they are responding to energy that we are projecting OUT, in the form of our thoughts, feelings and actions.


So you may have to START:

  • Qualifying your clients more stringently before you get on the phone
  • Release team members who can’t or won’t meet your expectations
  • Hang out with people who have already achieved what you wish to accomplish
  • Take clear steps to raise your confidence
  • Have conversations where you set clear boundaries


You may have to STOP:

  • Answering your own email or FB messages
  • Reading your FB or Twitter feed, outside of certain hours
  • Giving people a zillion chances
  • Wasting time on calls
  • Tolerating team that are not an energetic match… and release them


Where you are engaging in the behaviors yourself?

  • Are YOU saying “I can’t afford it?” on sales calls?
  • Do YOU hem and haw over decisions, especially around investing in yourself?
  • Do YOU engage in negativity, needy behavior, drama or attention-seeking? (These behaviors can masquerade as other things. For example, repeated defaulting on payments is a form of attention-seeking.)


No judgment. This is about being aware so you can make new choices. Which brings us to the most important one of all…

STOP ENGAGING in the situations that you no longer wish to experience.

We attract what we put out there. Engage the unwanted and you keep it around.

  • If someone is playing the “one foot in, one foot out” game with you… and you continue to have conversations with them…
  • If someone is giving you excuse after excuse on why they’re not paying you… and you continue to give them service…
  • If a team member shows you time after time that they do not or will not follow your rules… and you’re still working with them…
  • If you give yourself sacred commitments (that you’ll make these 5 phone calls, get up to exercise, etc)… and yet energize your resistance more than the result…

It’s not a mystery why the unwanted situation and behaviors keep showing up.

The best way to banish time and energy vampires is to BE the one who is not available for time and energy vampires.

Think of someone über-successful that you admire. Maybe Oprah. #classicexample

Think about Oprah’s energy field. Do you think she gets a lot of people nipping at her energy and pushing her boundaries?

Probably not. Because her energy is… Oprah.

She can’t engage. She doesn’t have time to engage. She wouldn’t be as successful if she did.

Spend some time watching Oprah. You can model her energy. If you’re not sure how to BE the one who doesn’t tolerate bullsh*t in her space, take your cues from those who already ARE.

Best part? This no-bullsh*t energy is actually pretty yummy to be in. I guarantee your clients are craving it… and they will follow your lead.

Years ago, my very first coach taught me a powerful lesson. A woman had been emailing me, poking at my boundaries, pushing my not-enough and need-to-be-liked hot buttons, making me doubt myself.

My coach, Helen, said, “People know how they can get to you.

Her next assignment? That I stop answering my own email. But the bigger lesson was in understanding what I was allowing in through my engagement with the behavior and attachment to how the behavior was making me feel. Attachment to drama, negative situations, feeling less-than.

What attachments and engagements are YOU ready to release?

What will that open you up to receive instead?

BONUS: How To Set Powerful Boundaries With Others In 3 Steps:

  • Start by making a clear request regarding the BEHAVIOR that doesn’t work for you: “Our policy is that payments are to be made on time. I’m going to ask you to stop allowing your credit card to bounce.”
  • Set a boundary that YOU can control. “If it happens again, I’m going to remove you from the program.”
  • Follow through. Without “charge,” drama or making a big thing of it.

Happy banishing!

When – And How – To Go For Something Bigger

Are you frustrated because those manifesting goals are just NOT happening?

Do you go for what seem to be “easy” Desires, and then… nothing?

I feel you.  The #1 question I hear when it comes to manifesting is some form of…  “why is it NOT working?”

Here’s the good news…

If you have a clear and well-demonstrated framework for manifesting (such as my Core Manifesting Process) and your Desires aren’t showing up… there is always a reason.  Always.

But it might not be what you think.  Your manifesting goal might not be BIG enough.

Yes, I’m going to talk BIG for a second.

I know it’s not always popular, what with so much focus in the entrepreneurial / manifesting / co-creation world on slowing down, self care, being in your feminine and recovering from over-achievement.

In my early business coaching days, the buzzword (buzzphrase?) was “ease and grace.”  🙂

And… I get it.  (Hey, my brand is Feminine Magic®, after all.)

But here’s the thing…

Our nature is expansion.  “Bigness” is in your spiritual DNA.

Unfortunately, almost all of us get conditioned from an early age to put a lid on Desire, to keep that expansive nature in check.

And so we do. Or we fall into the trap of ambition – chasing egoic desires and other people’s plans for us – then wake up, discover how unhappy we are, and scale back.

We go for what we think we can have, what we are allowed to have, what someone else said we should want… rather than what is truly the Desire of our heart.  And then we wonder why we’re NOT calling it in!

Often we assume that if the Desire is not materializing… it must be “too big.”

However, goals that are too SMALL are just as likely to make you feel like you’re banging your head against the wall.

I’ll use myself as an example.

For three years, I ran a training program for entrepreneurs, Goddess Business School®.  Our clients loved it.  They got extraordinary results.  Many said it was the best business program they’d ever taken.

Over the course of 3 years, we had about 250 people enroll in Goddess Business School®.  It was a 7-figure revenue stream and a phenomenal success.

So WHY did we have SUCH a challenge setting up ongoing lead generation for it?  Why did filling it feel like SUCH a drain?

Because at the end of the day, the goal of [X] number of people in Goddess Business School® was too small a goal for me.

For me, even the idea of getting 500 people per year in a high-end coaching program feels small.  Why?  Because the coaching business model is simply not the appropriate container for what I’m here to do!

Of course there’s nothing wrong with the coaching business model.  “Big” is relative – I know leaders with 8-figure businesses who are playing a big game and are right on purpose!  But it was never meant to be my game.

The minute I gave myself permission to release that goal and embrace the what I truly wish my business to be – including the size – all of the pieces have been falling into place at a furious pace, sometimes so quickly that I feel like I can’t keep up.

So how about you?  Is there something you’ve been beating your head against the wall about, trying to “make happen?”

Here are a few signs that it could be time to UP your manifesting goal…

  • You’re bored. Really bored. Your resistance is off the charts, and not in that oh-sh*t-what-if-XYZ-happens kind of way, but in that would-rather-stick-hot-pokers-into-my-eyes-than-do-PDQ-because-I’m-bored-to-tears kind of way.
  • You’re feeling constricted. Your goal feels “tight,” like you have no wiggle room for being surprised and delighted by the Universe.  You can see only “one way” in front of you and it’s hard to access (or get excited about) other possibilities.
  • Zero inspiration. All of your aligned actions are “been there, done that.”  You’re receiving NO or next-to-NO intuitive hits or nudges about what actions to take next.  You appear to have no opportunities.
  • Your Desires are not manifesting, the goods are not showing up, you’re not meeting your goals. The eagle has not landed, and appears to be nowhere in sight.

Does this resonate?

Here’s how to find – and call in! –  the Desire that is the perfect right size for you, right now:

1. Release the floodgates – a.k.a. your Truth.

Think about whatever you’re going for right now.  I’ll wait.

Ok.  Now ask yourself this zinger from David Neagle

“If other people’s thoughts, judgments and opinions didn’t matter… would you still want the same thing?”

It’s a useful question to ask on a regular basis.  Because as a beautiful human, you’re going to pick stuff up from other people – including “shoulds” about what you want!

Years ago I mentored with a woman who had a dream of creating a coaching organization on the scale of $10 million or more. I fell into the dream because it matched my idea of BIG at the time.  I was already a good 2 years in before I realized the dream wasn’t mine.

There is no judgment here.  We get inklings of what we want (and permission to have what we want) by leaning into what OTHERS want.  It’s part of learning, growing, and being alive.  Which is all the more reason why discernment is needed.

What is the true Desire of YOUR heart?  Big or small, the Desire that will make you happy is the one that is really yours to begin with.

2. Say YES.

At the risk of repeating myself… 🙂

If you have a Desire, and it’s coming from the pure place inside of you – your Higher Self, your Essence – then the WAY for it to be made manifest is in your world already.

Everything you Desire is already here.  But it won’t show up until you make a DECISION that you are having it.

You won’t even begin to see it – or the opportunity that can bring it to you – until you say yes.

This is where your faith comes in.  Faith is one of your 4 magical tools.  Use your faith to make your belief in the Desire bigger than your belief in the circumstances you see in front of you.

3. Forget about the “chunking down.”

I’m going out on a limb with this one.

Conventional coaching wisdom (that I’ve shared many times myself) says… if the goal feels too big or out of reach, “chunk it down” to make it something more manageable.

But that doesn’t really leave room for the BIG miracles, does it?  Why no, it does not!

Now, I’m not saying to NEVER “chunk down.”  IF you’re stretched to the point of abstraction (i.e., the goal doesn’t feel real)… chunking down may make sense so that you can wrap your mental arms around it, so to speak.

But instead of the conditioned response of shrinking-to-fit… I invite you to try on accepting what you REALLY want as not only possible, but inevitable.

As my good friend Justin says, “I don’t have to believe it before I create it.”  (A contrarian with a heart of gold, that Justin.)

It’s already here.  You can have it now.   How do you call it in now?   Begin by acknowledging that it’s here in the first place.

4. Bring yourself into energetic alignment with what you want.

This is NOT just about “raising your vibration” or visualizing.

This is about embodying on ALL levels – mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, somatic, and your actions – the energy of the one that has it now.

Different personal growth masters say this in different ways.  Study them, and you will begin to notice that this is the secret sauce to calling in what you want with lightening speed.

(The “how” of this is at the heart of all of our manifesting training programs.)

The #1 reason why people don’t create what they want is because they don’t know what they want… or don’t give themselves permission to say YES to what they want.

These 4 steps will help you go for BIGGER – if that’s in alignment for you.

And if it’s not, they will help you get clear on what is true for you.

Here’s to saying YES to all of your most meaningful dreams!

3 Core Beliefs That Make Manifesting Easy

Ever struggle to manifest something?

We all have.  At those times, it’s helpful to go back to basics.

We live in a mirroring Universe.

Everything we experience in our OUTER world is a direct reflection of our INNER world.  There is nothing in our experience that we do not create, promote or allow.

As within, so without.  Magicians have understood this for centuries.

In magic, we work with ALL aspects of ourselves. When we BE the one who has our Desire now, on all levels – mental, physical, emotional, somatic, spiritual, vibrational – that Desire will show up in our outer world.

A great place to start is your beliefs.

Now, when it comes to beliefs, I’m a bit of an outlier in the bigger circle of success coaches and manifesting experts.

I’m NOT going to tell you that “mindset” and belief change work is the be-all, end-all.

Because it isn’t.  We’re a lot more than our minds.  And what we think of as “beliefs” are really meanings we’ve made for past experiences that have become coded in our bodies, through time and repetition.

That said, your beliefs DO drive the creation of your experiences.  Your experiences confirm your beliefs, both conscious and unconscious.

Changing beliefs from “the inside out” can be very difficult.  And without an experience of the new belief in your body, it won’t really “take.”

However, there IS a way to use beliefs to start calling in more of what you want right away!

For years I’ve used this one simple tool to use beliefs in a way that pulls me to my Desire in a fraction of the time:

  • Consciously adopt the belief(s) that make having what you Desire a done deal
  • Take action from that place
  • Allow the new experience to confirm your new belief

I’ve used this technique to sell out of programs, call new people into my life, find the perfect [fill-in-the-blank] and do a whole host of things that seem impossible in the moment.

So are you READY for 3 core beliefs that make manifesting, well, easy?

Thought so!  And because I know your mind wants PROOF, I’ve got that too.

The Belief: Manifesting is easy.  🙂

The PROOF:  Years ago, I was stuck in a dark night of the soul.  I was two years into my business (two years out of my J-O-B, more like), and clients were still non-existent.  I lay awake fretting every night about money as we went deeper and deeper into debt – all on consumer credit cards.

Finally I’d decided I’d had enough.

I was full of doubt.  My self-esteem was a mess.  Frankly, I was barely functioning.

I cobbled together an offer and a script for phone conversations, both of which I’d pulled out of my bum-bum. (Pardon the image; why yes, I DO have a preschooler.  🙂 )

I sketched out a manifesting process based on spiritual teachings I’d learned a decade previous but had pushed aside in all the drama.

I took on ONE belief: making money is easy.  I worked it like I believed it, 1000%.

30 days later, I’d manifested $20,000 – more money than I’d ever made in my life at one time.

And you know what?

It was pretty easy.

I got on the phone.  I stumbled around.  When I wasn’t obsessing over myself and how ridiculous I felt, I was able to connect with the human being on the other end of the line and offer to help them.

Nine of them said yes.  And that was that.

Since then I’ve taught well over 1000 people how to make money out of nothing.  The ones who adopt the belief of “making money is easy” all say… it’s pretty easy.

Our beliefs create our experiences.  Our experiences confirm our beliefs.  Want to make something easy?  Tell yourself it’s going to be easy… and mean it.

The same is true for anything you want to manifest.  Or anything else, for that matter.  Declare it easy and you are waaaaay closer to that being so.

The Belief: Everything you Desire is already here.

The PROOF: Yeah, yeah, you’ve heard me talk about this one ‘til I’m blue in the face.  That’s because it’s actually NOT a belief.  It is spiritual law.  The Law of Polarity.

And if you think about it, it just makes sense.  There are no “halves” in the Universe.  Everything is whole and complete.

There is no “up” without a “down.”  There is no “left” without a “right.”  There is no “in” without an “out.”  Everything has an opposite, and it is equal and opposite.

This means that if you have a sincere Desire for something, it is already here.  Not only that, it is in your world already.

Now, it has to be a sincere Desire we’re talking about.  If you’re a 70-year-old woman, you can’t “test the Universe” by saying you want to give birth to a newborn.  If becoming a rocket scientist wasn’t on your radar before and you don’t really care… you’re not going to manifest it.

So why does this make manifesting easy?

Because if everything you Desire is already here… you don’t have to freak out about it NOT being here!

You don’t have to be in lack.  You don’t have to notice that it isn’t here.  You can be 1000% certain that it is here.  All you have to do is shift your awareness so you can SEE the opportunity… and say yes to the opportunity.

Total confidence.  No freak outs.  Easy like Sunday morning.

Oh, and that “everything is whole and complete” thing?  That includes you.  😉

BELIEF: You already know how to do this! 

PROOF: You are already a masterful creator. You are creating all day long, all day, every day!!

And I’m not just talking about creating what you DON’T want. Many of those creations are exactly what you want!

You were born with mechanisms to create your world: your Desire, your subconscious mind (an amazing creating machine), and the one thing that NO other life form on the planet has: the ability to choose.

You are also a born learner, which means you can learn new things no matter how old you are.   You can change, adapt and grow at any age.

You are also already whole and complete.  You are Divine.

As humans, we pick up illusions along the way.  We have early experiences in life, then we repeat those experiences over and over again.

Magic is about removing those illusions.  First step: the awareness that they are illusions.

Here’s what I did when I was just starting out… and what I still do to this day.  Find stories of people who are just like you who have done what you Desire to do.

The world is filled with stories of amazing BE-ings who were too old, too young, too broke, too sick, too early, too late, had 5 kids, were in poverty, working full time jobs, going to school, getting divorced, in an abusive relationship and everything in between.  And created it anyway.

Read them.   Get inspired.

Then look at your own creations.  I double-dog dare you to make a list of 10 things you’ve already created in your life that you’re THRILLED about.

Then don’t stop there.  That list is 20, 30, 300, 500, 1000+ items long… even if you don’t have access to them all in this moment.

You don’t have to.  Your body does.  It’s all good.  And you already know how to do this.

BONUS BELIEF: There is ALWAYS a way.

PROOF: This one follows directly from the Law of Polarity,  that everything you desire is already here.

If everything you Desire is already here, and the WAY for it to come to you already exists…

… and you already know how to manifest…

… and you are a born learner…

… and you can change, adapt and grow at any stage…

… and there’s evidence of this all around you that you can have, create, receive what you Desire (decide that there is, look for it and you will see it)…

Yeah, you got this.  🙂

Now… from THIS place…think of that bold, juicy manifesting goal you’re working on…

From THIS place… what new possibilities are available to you?

Let me know in the comments, or on the Facebook Group.  And if you need more support in allowing these beliefs to sink in, check out past episodes of our radio show.

You got this!

Wealth Creation For Women with Lee Milteer

I was thrilled to sit down with my dear friend, feminine magician Lee Milteer, for a special wealth building master class for women!

I first heard about Lee ten years ago, through her association with one of the top entrepreneurial training companies in the world.

I was brand new in my business.  Lee was (and is) one of the most successful entrepreneurial mentors out there.  Her client list read like a “who’s who” of millionaire entrepreneurs, including many big names in the coaching industry.

The first time I saw her, I immediately knew that there was something deeper to her teachings than the nuts and bolts of marketing.  (Lee has taught over 1 million people how to be a paid speaker.)

Turns out I was right.  Lee has an extensive background in metaphysics, having studied in mystery schools from young adulthood.

She used that knowledge to rise up out of poverty to become one of the top speaking and productivity coaches in the world, sharing the stage with Deepak Chopra, Tony Robbins and too many other global influencers to count!

Last year, Lee “semi-retired” from the speaking circuit to teach magic and manifesting in her mystery school, the Lee Milteer School of Wisdom.

I finally got to meet her – at one of her powerful Vision Quest retreats in Sedona.  It was, hands down, the best event I’ve ever experienced.

If you’re ready to develop YOUR powers and gifts to build wealth in your life, this master class is a must-listen.

Catch the replay here:

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Here is some of what we covered:

  • Why women MUST make a decision to bypass programming about what’s possible and consciously claim more
  • The 5 kinds of energy that we all have to direct to creating wealth (or anything else we Desire
  • The 4 fundamental things you must possess to attract wealth
  • The role your authentic gifts play in the wealth creation process
  • The #1 thing you must eliminate from your thought process
  • The #1 barrier to wealth creation and how to remove it
  • Why and HOW money moves in our economy, and how you can easily tap into this stream
  • The role of LOVE in wealth creation and how you can cultivate it to its full potential in your life

Lee “walks the talk” and is as passionate as I am about empowering you with the energetic tools and practical strategies to grow your wealth.

You’re going to want to listen to this one more than once!!

And if you’re called, I highly HIGHLY recommend reserving one of the last seats for Lee’s Vision Quest – which is coming right up!

See all of the details here.



PS: In the interview we mentioned a book that was pivotal to our respective journeys.  It’s called Psycho-Cybernetics.  You can find it here.