When – And How – To Go For Something Bigger

Are you frustrated because those manifesting goals are just NOT happening?

Do you go for what seem to be “easy” Desires, and then… nothing?

I feel you.  The #1 question I hear when it comes to manifesting is some form of…  “why is it NOT working?”

Here’s the good news…

If you have a clear and well-demonstrated framework for manifesting (such as my Core Manifesting Process) and your Desires aren’t showing up… there is always a reason.  Always.

But it might not be what you think.  Your manifesting goal might not be BIG enough.

Yes, I’m going to talk BIG for a second.

I know it’s not always popular, what with so much focus in the entrepreneurial / manifesting / co-creation world on slowing down, self care, being in your feminine and recovering from over-achievement.

In my early business coaching days, the buzzword (buzzphrase?) was “ease and grace.”  🙂

And… I get it.  (Hey, my brand is Feminine Magic®, after all.)

But here’s the thing…

Our nature is expansion.  “Bigness” is in your spiritual DNA.

Unfortunately, almost all of us get conditioned from an early age to put a lid on Desire, to keep that expansive nature in check.

And so we do. Or we fall into the trap of ambition – chasing egoic desires and other people’s plans for us – then wake up, discover how unhappy we are, and scale back.

We go for what we think we can have, what we are allowed to have, what someone else said we should want… rather than what is truly the Desire of our heart.  And then we wonder why we’re NOT calling it in!

Often we assume that if the Desire is not materializing… it must be “too big.”

However, goals that are too SMALL are just as likely to make you feel like you’re banging your head against the wall.

I’ll use myself as an example.

For three years, I ran a training program for entrepreneurs, Goddess Business School®.  Our clients loved it.  They got extraordinary results.  Many said it was the best business program they’d ever taken.

Over the course of 3 years, we had about 250 people enroll in Goddess Business School®.  It was a 7-figure revenue stream and a phenomenal success.

So WHY did we have SUCH a challenge setting up ongoing lead generation for it?  Why did filling it feel like SUCH a drain?

Because at the end of the day, the goal of [X] number of people in Goddess Business School® was too small a goal for me.

For me, even the idea of getting 500 people per year in a high-end coaching program feels small.  Why?  Because the coaching business model is simply not the appropriate container for what I’m here to do!

Of course there’s nothing wrong with the coaching business model.  “Big” is relative – I know leaders with 8-figure businesses who are playing a big game and are right on purpose!  But it was never meant to be my game.

The minute I gave myself permission to release that goal and embrace the what I truly wish my business to be – including the size – all of the pieces have been falling into place at a furious pace, sometimes so quickly that I feel like I can’t keep up.

So how about you?  Is there something you’ve been beating your head against the wall about, trying to “make happen?”

Here are a few signs that it could be time to UP your manifesting goal…

  • You’re bored. Really Your resistance is off the charts, and not in that oh-sh*t-what-if-XYZ-happens kind of way, but in that would-rather-stick-hot-pokers-into-my-eyes-than-do-PDQ-because-I’m-bored-to-tears kind of way.
  • You’re feeling constricted. Your goal feels “tight,” like you have no wiggle room for being surprised and delighted by the Universe.  You can see only “one way” in front of you and it’s hard to access (or get excited about) other possibilities.
  • Zero inspiration. All of your aligned actions are “been there, done that.”  You’re receiving NO or next-to-NO intuitive hits or nudges about what actions to take next.  You appear to have no opportunities.
  • Your Desires are not manifesting, the goods are not showing up, you’re not meeting your goals. The eagle has not landed, and appears to be nowhere in sight.

Does this resonate?

Here’s how to find – and call in! –  the Desire that is the perfect right size for you, right now:

1. Release the floodgates – a.k.a. your Truth.

Think about whatever you’re going for right now.  I’ll wait.

Ok.  Now ask yourself this zinger from David Neagle

“If other people’s thoughts, judgments and opinions didn’t matter… would you still want the same thing?”

It’s a useful question to ask on a regular basis.  Because as a beautiful human, you’re going to pick stuff up from other people – including “shoulds” about what you want!

Years ago I mentored with a woman who had a dream of creating a coaching organization on the scale of $10 million or more. I fell into the dream because it matched my idea of BIG at the time.  I was already a good 2 years in before I realized the dream wasn’t mine.

There is no judgment here.  We get inklings of what we want (and permission to have what we want) by leaning into what OTHERS want.  It’s part of learning, growing, and being alive.  Which is all the more reason why discernment is needed.

What is the true Desire of YOUR heart?  Big or small, the Desire that will make you happy is the one that is really yours to begin with.

2. Say YES.

At the risk of repeating myself… 🙂

If you have a Desire, and it’s coming from the pure place inside of you – your Higher Self, your Essence – then the WAY for it to be made manifest is in your world already.

Everything you Desire is already here.  But it won’t show up until you make a DECISION that you are having it.

You won’t even begin to see it – or the opportunity that can bring it to you – until you say yes.

This is where your faith comes in.  Faith is one of your 4 magical tools.  Use your faith to make your belief in the Desire bigger than your belief in the circumstances you see in front of you.

3. Forget about the “chunking down.”

I’m going out on a limb with this one.

Conventional coaching wisdom (that I’ve shared many times myself) says… if the goal feels too big or out of reach, “chunk it down” to make it something more manageable.

But that doesn’t really leave room for the BIG miracles, does it?  Why no, it does not!

Now, I’m not saying to NEVER “chunk down.”  IF you’re stretched to the point of abstraction (i.e., the goal doesn’t feel real)… chunking down may make sense so that you can wrap your mental arms around it, so to speak.

But instead of the conditioned response of shrinking-to-fit… I invite you to try on accepting what you REALLY want as not only possible, but inevitable.

As my good friend Justin says, “I don’t have to believe it before I create it.”  (A contrarian with a heart of gold, that Justin.)

It’s already here.  You can have it now.   How do you call it in now?   Begin by acknowledging that it’s here in the first place.

4. Bring yourself into energetic alignment with what you want.

This is NOT just about “raising your vibration” or visualizing.

This is about embodying on ALL levels – mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, somatic, and your actions – the energy of the one that has it now.

Different personal growth masters say this in different ways.  Study them, and you will begin to notice that this is the secret sauce to calling in what you want with lightening speed.

(The “how” of this is at the heart of all of our manifesting training programs.)

The #1 reason why people don’t create what they want is because they don’t know what they want… or don’t give themselves permission to say YES to what they want.

These 4 steps will help you go for BIGGER – if that’s in alignment for you.

And if it’s not, they will help you get clear on what is true for you.

Here’s to saying YES to all of your most meaningful dreams!

3 Core Beliefs That Make Manifesting Easy

Ever struggle to manifest something?

We all have.  At those times, it’s helpful to go back to basics.

We live in a mirroring Universe.

Everything we experience in our OUTER world is a direct reflection of our INNER world.  There is nothing in our experience that we do not create, promote or allow.

As within, so without.  Magicians have understood this for centuries.

In magic, we work with ALL aspects of ourselves. When we BE the one who has our Desire now, on all levels – mental, physical, emotional, somatic, spiritual, vibrational – that Desire will show up in our outer world.

A great place to start is your beliefs.

Now, when it comes to beliefs, I’m a bit of an outlier in the bigger circle of success coaches and manifesting experts.

I’m NOT going to tell you that “mindset” and belief change work is the be-all, end-all.

Because it isn’t.  We’re a lot more than our minds.  And what we think of as “beliefs” are really meanings we’ve made for past experiences that have become coded in our bodies, through time and repetition.

That said, your beliefs DO drive the creation of your experiences.  Your experiences confirm your beliefs, both conscious and unconscious.

Changing beliefs from “the inside out” can be very difficult.  And without an experience of the new belief in your body, it won’t really “take.”

However, there IS a way to use beliefs to start calling in more of what you want right away!

For years I’ve used this one simple tool to use beliefs in a way that pulls me to my Desire in a fraction of the time:

  • Consciously adopt the belief(s) that make having what you Desire a done deal
  • Take action from that place
  • Allow the new experience to confirm your new belief

I’ve used this technique to sell out of programs, call new people into my life, find the perfect [fill-in-the-blank] and do a whole host of things that seem impossible in the moment.

So are you READY for 3 core beliefs that make manifesting, well, easy?

Thought so!  And because I know your mind wants PROOF, I’ve got that too.

The Belief: Manifesting is easy.  🙂

The PROOF:  Years ago, I was stuck in a dark night of the soul.  I was two years into my business (two years out of my J-O-B, more like), and clients were still non-existent.  I lay awake fretting every night about money as we went deeper and deeper into debt – all on consumer credit cards.

Finally I’d decided I’d had enough.

I was full of doubt.  My self-esteem was a mess.  Frankly, I was barely functioning.

I cobbled together an offer and a script for phone conversations, both of which I’d pulled out of my bum-bum. (Pardon the image; why yes, I DO have a preschooler.  🙂 )

I sketched out a manifesting process based on spiritual teachings I’d learned a decade previous but had pushed aside in all the drama.

I took on ONE belief: making money is easy.  I worked it like I believed it, 1000%.

30 days later, I’d manifested $20,000 – more money than I’d ever made in my life at one time.

And you know what?

It was pretty easy.

I got on the phone.  I stumbled around.  When I wasn’t obsessing over myself and how ridiculous I felt, I was able to connect with the human being on the other end of the line and offer to help them.

Nine of them said yes.  And that was that.

Since then I’ve taught well over 1000 people how to make money out of nothing.  The ones who adopt the belief of “making money is easy” all say… it’s pretty easy.

Our beliefs create our experiences.  Our experiences confirm our beliefs.  Want to make something easy?  Tell yourself it’s going to be easy… and mean it.

The same is true for anything you want to manifest.  Or anything else, for that matter.  Declare it easy and you are waaaaay closer to that being so.

The Belief: Everything you Desire is already here.

The PROOF: Yeah, yeah, you’ve heard me talk about this one ‘til I’m blue in the face.  That’s because it’s actually NOT a belief.  It is spiritual law.  The Law of Polarity.

And if you think about it, it just makes sense.  There are no “halves” in the Universe.  Everything is whole and complete.

There is no “up” without a “down.”  There is no “left” without a “right.”  There is no “in” without an “out.”  Everything has an opposite, and it is equal and opposite.

This means that if you have a sincere Desire for something, it is already here.  Not only that, it is in your world already.

Now, it has to be a sincere Desire we’re talking about.  If you’re a 70-year-old woman, you can’t “test the Universe” by saying you want to give birth to a newborn.  If becoming a rocket scientist wasn’t on your radar before and you don’t really care… you’re not going to manifest it.

So why does this make manifesting easy?

Because if everything you Desire is already here… you don’t have to freak out about it NOT being here!

You don’t have to be in lack.  You don’t have to notice that it isn’t here.  You can be 1000% certain that it is here.  All you have to do is shift your awareness so you can SEE the opportunity… and say yes to the opportunity.

Total confidence.  No freak outs.  Easy like Sunday morning.

Oh, and that “everything is whole and complete” thing?  That includes you.  😉

BELIEF: You already know how to do this! 

PROOF: You are already a masterful creator. You are creating all day long, all day, every day!!

And I’m not just talking about creating what you DON’T want. Many of those creations are exactly what you want!

You were born with mechanisms to create your world: your Desire, your subconscious mind (an amazing creating machine), and the one thing that NO other life form on the planet has: the ability to choose.

You are also a born learner, which means you can learn new things no matter how old you are.   You can change, adapt and grow at any age.

You are also already whole and complete.  You are Divine.

As humans, we pick up illusions along the way.  We have early experiences in life, then we repeat those experiences over and over again.

Magic is about removing those illusions.  First step: the awareness that they are illusions.

Here’s what I did when I was just starting out… and what I still do to this day.  Find stories of people who are just like you who have done what you Desire to do.

The world is filled with stories of amazing BE-ings who were too old, too young, too broke, too sick, too early, too late, had 5 kids, were in poverty, working full time jobs, going to school, getting divorced, in an abusive relationship and everything in between.  And created it anyway.

Read them.   Get inspired.

Then look at your own creations.  I double-dog dare you to make a list of 10 things you’ve already created in your life that you’re THRILLED about.

Then don’t stop there.  That list is 20, 30, 300, 500, 1000+ items long… even if you don’t have access to them all in this moment.

You don’t have to.  Your body does.  It’s all good.  And you already know how to do this.

BONUS BELIEF: There is ALWAYS a way.

PROOF: This one follows directly from the Law of Polarity,  that everything you desire is already here.

If everything you Desire is already here, and the WAY for it to come to you already exists…

… and you already know how to manifest…

… and you are a born learner…

… and you can change, adapt and grow at any stage…

… and there’s evidence of this all around you that you can have, create, receive what you Desire (decide that there is, look for it and you will see it)…

Yeah, you got this.  🙂

Now… from THIS place…think of that bold, juicy manifesting goal you’re working on…

From THIS place… what new possibilities are available to you?

Let me know in the comments, or on the Facebook Group.  And if you need more support in allowing these beliefs to sink in, check out past episodes of our radio show.

You got this!

Wealth Creation For Women with Lee Milteer

I was thrilled to sit down with my dear friend, feminine magician Lee Milteer, for a special wealth building master class for women!

I first heard about Lee ten years ago, through her association with one of the top entrepreneurial training companies in the world.

I was brand new in my business.  Lee was (and is) one of the most successful entrepreneurial mentors out there.  Her client list read like a “who’s who” of millionaire entrepreneurs, including many big names in the coaching industry.

The first time I saw her, I immediately knew that there was something deeper to her teachings than the nuts and bolts of marketing.  (Lee has taught over 1 million people how to be a paid speaker.)

Turns out I was right.  Lee has an extensive background in metaphysics, having studied in mystery schools from young adulthood.

She used that knowledge to rise up out of poverty to become one of the top speaking and productivity coaches in the world, sharing the stage with Deepak Chopra, Tony Robbins and too many other global influencers to count!

Last year, Lee “semi-retired” from the speaking circuit to teach magic and manifesting in her mystery school, the Lee Milteer School of Wisdom.

I finally got to meet her – at one of her powerful Vision Quest retreats in Sedona.  It was, hands down, the best event I’ve ever experienced.

If you’re ready to develop YOUR powers and gifts to build wealth in your life, this master class is a must-listen.

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Here is some of what we covered:

  • Why women MUST make a decision to bypass programming about what’s possible and consciously claim more
  • The 5 kinds of energy that we all have to direct to creating wealth (or anything else we Desire
  • The 4 fundamental things you must possess to attract wealth
  • The role your authentic gifts play in the wealth creation process
  • The #1 thing you must eliminate from your thought process
  • The #1 barrier to wealth creation and how to remove it
  • Why and HOW money moves in our economy, and how you can easily tap into this stream
  • The role of LOVE in wealth creation and how you can cultivate it to its full potential in your life

Lee “walks the talk” and is as passionate as I am about empowering you with the energetic tools and practical strategies to grow your wealth.

You’re going to want to listen to this one more than once!!

And if you’re called, I highly HIGHLY recommend reserving one of the last seats for Lee’s Vision Quest – which is coming right up!

See all of the details here.

 

 

PS: In the interview we mentioned a book that was pivotal to our respective journeys.  It’s called Psycho-Cybernetics.  You can find it here.

You’ve Taken A Stand. Now What?

“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago.  The second-best time is right now.“

The election and inauguration of the new President of the United States has initiated an awakening, the likes of which we have never seen before.

Love, hate, rage, disgust, horror, compassion, hope… my Facebook feed has it all.  I’m sure yours does, too.

A question-behind-the-question runs through nearly ALL of the posts…

“What are you a stand for?”

On Facebook, the answers come pouring in.  Eloquent, passion-filled answers.  Some of them have moved me to tears.

We’re awake now.  We’re taking a stand.  The question is…

Now what?

As a collective, we have activated TWO of the most powerful, potent, must-have forces for manifesting.

The first is urgency.  No significant change or new reality happens without the fire inside.  For example, think back to your last enrollment conversation that ended in I can’t afford it or it’s not the right time.

The real reason they didn’t sign up?  No urgency.  (No judgment here; just naming the energy for what it is.)

Then there’s tension.  The feeling of being between point A and point B, when you really really (really) want to be at point B already.  The stretch, often occurring at the point of decision. Will you go this way, or that way?

Again, think back to your last sales conversation.  That moment after you’ve stated the price of your program and before they respond.   What did you feel?   The tension.

Everything on earth is created by tension seeking resolution.  Your power as a creator comes in being absolutely conscious of what tension you want to resolve, and in what direction.

Without urgency, you won’t have a reason to resolve it at all.  Instead, you’ll just put up with it.  And things will stay then same.

So we’ve got tension.  We’ve got urgency.  These two things are not exactly easy to manufacture.  We’ve got ‘em.  In spades.

Now what?

That is the work of the conscious manifestor, the Creatrix, the Feminine Magician.

And that is the invitation before you now.  To use the energies present and what is stirring in you, consciously, deliberately, and with direction.

1. Decide, very specifically, how the stand you’re taking is going to show up in your thoughts, your energy and your actions.

In other words… decide who you’re going to BE, and what that’s going to look like in the real world.

For example, I’m a stand against hate in all its forms.  I stand against the destruction of freedom and any kind of messing with the Constitution.

I am a stand for free speech and full self expression.

My parents are both hardcore conservatives. I am a stand for BEING with different points of view, and always recognizing a person’s Divinity, no matter what their opinions and actions.

I am a stand for Truth and Love.

I am a stand for women and their creative empowerment, especially in the realm of finances.

I am a stand for 1000% personal responsibility at all times, AND for the understanding of how our actions and manifestations impact the collective.

I am a stand for “we” AND “me.”  I am a stand for the “Yes, AND.

So how does this all show up on the physical plane?

Clearly letting my community know where I stand.  Using my voice and being visible in support of all I mention above.   Calling out bullsh*t where I see it.

AND…

Welcoming differing belief systems and religions into our community with open arms, as I always have.  Creating safe spaces for you to BE more powerful than you’ve ever been AND be in your softness and vulnerability too… as I always have.

(While you’ll see more of my personal views on my personal Facebook page, as always our communities and business Facebook page will be free of politics and current events.)

And, of course… creating content, programs, and services that reflect what I’m a stand for.

How will YOUR stand show up in YOUR life?

You don’t have to have it all figured out right now.  Just be willing to be in the question.  Be willing to discover and BE who you are here to be.

2. Get very clear on what you wish to create.

There are things your soul wishes to be, do, have and experience.  Urgency and tension are on your side.  Now is the time to hold yourself accountable to discovering what you’re meant to create, and doing it.

Now is the time to fully develop your Divinely-given Creative Power.  As a fully awake, sovereign BE-ing on a journey of personal growth, and with all of your resources and conscious awareness, it is your responsibility to do so.

The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago.  The second-best time is right now. 

3. Now add “money mastery” and “financial freedom” to your above list.

There is no empowerment without financial empowerment.  We cannot be truly free and make the difference we are meant to make until we have the money thing handled.

Several of my friends in spiritual leadership have been receiving very clear, very strong downloads that we MUST take full control of our money by creating our own economy – a business, investing, other money channels.

(I’ve been getting the same message from the Recordkeepers, my guides in the Akashic Records.)

Of course, we don’t need our guides to tell us that getting our money house in order is a prudent thing to do.  We just need to say yes, drop the shame or whatever other story is getting in the way… and commit.

4. Empty out, and listen.

It’s that classic spiritual seeker’s question: how do we listen to the voice of Spirit, over the voice of ego?

The answer is to empty.

Feel your feelings fully, without feeding them.  Understand that your emotions are powerful energy sources that point to your truth…  but they are not THE truth.

Create and maintain conscious boundaries.  Know when too much input is too much.  A big part of emptying out is disengaging from other people’s egos.  (This does not mean shutting yourself off from the world.  It does mean knowing your boundaries and honoring them. )

Then listen.

It’s imperative that we stay connected to our truth.  You always know.  Create space, set a clear intention to hear… and you will.  Every time.

5. Focus on what you are creating rather than reacting to what others are doing.

Magicians know that what you energize, manifests and that your energy is your most precious resource.  Don’t turn it over to chaos.  Keep your energy with you, where it belongs.  Return what is not yours to the sender or to Source.

6. Stay awake.

No matter what your stand, the one thing we cannot do is go back to sleep.

I’m an empath; I get how easy it is to check out.   But urgency is the fuel for transformation; without urgency, nothing moves.  Nobody can give you a sense of urgency but you.

Consciousness and connection is the ultimate work of the spiritual seeker.  Awareness is the catalyst for change.  Stay connected instead of checking out.

7. Live into the question of “Who am I BE-ing?” daily.

Years ago, when I was just starting out as a marketing coach, I taught a simple strategy called Just One Thing.  Every day, do just one thing to move your business forward.

Today we have the same opportunity.  You don’t have to change the world in five minutes.  This isn’t about “doing” more.  Just one thing.  Daily.

We have all been given a glorious opportunity to BE who we are truly called to BE.

No matter what you’re feeling… or what your stand is… don’t let that precious gift go to waste.  Consciously choose what you are a stand for, what you are creating, and how you will show up.   Every day.

The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago.  The second-best time is right now. 

With all my love and soooo much magic,

One Simple Practice To Manifest With Lightning Speed

I’ve been thinking a lot about speed, of late.  Specifically, speed of manifesting.

Some of us are pre-disposed for speed.  While others are naturally inclined for more slow and steady.

Both styles have their strengths.  But no matter where you fall on that continuum…

… I think it’s safe to say that when we want something, we want it yesterday.  🙂

And why not, right?  If you’re going to manifest, and if instant manifestation is real (it is – more on that later)… why not bring the thing in quickly?

The great news is, we have tools that allow us to do just that.

We can consciously create speed in our manifesting… without making ourselves nuts.

So how do we consciously create speed?

You’ve probably heard me say that success in manifesting is 90% energy and just 10% execution.  And that’s absolutely true.

Unless your energy is fully aligned with what you desire, it’s unlikely you’ll create what you want.  But don’t underestimate that 10% execution.

What the execution really comes down to (and what really creates speed) is our actions.

More specifically, our aligned actions. (Read: not just the aimless DO-ing)

Energy follows energy.  Take some form of aligned action and the Universe (the Divine, Spirit, Source, “the Field”…) will match it in some way.

Aligned energy + aligned action equals aligned results.

So what’s the ONE aligned action that is very likely going to bring you what you want?

Well, of course it depends.  That’s part of the fun of the manifesting game.

But there IS one form of aligned action that is going to speed up your results in, say, 98% of the cases.  (Or maybe 99.999%.)

Before I reveal what it is, let’s take a deeper look at one of the many Universal Truths at play here.

The Law of Polarity tells us that there are no “halves” in the Universe.

You cannot have an “up” without a “down,” a “left” without a “right,” an “in” without an “out,” a “front” without a “back.”

There are always two sides, and they exist simultaneously.

So what does this mean?  That everything you truly Desire (at a soul level) is already here.   It exists already, and the way to bring it into physical form in your life is in your world already.

(This is the “instant manifestation is real” part.)

But how does it get to you – i.e., how do you receive it?

Through other people.  And the way to do that

… is to ASK.

Ask someone to have a Breakthrough Session with you.
Ask someone to step into your program.
Ask for the chance to get in front of your ideal clients.
Ask your partner to cover childcare for you for an hour so you can go to the spa.

Want to manifest $100,000?

Sure you could you could maintain a high vibration and think about having the money and hang out and wait for someone to just show up and give it to you.

That can work… sometimes.

But how about greasing the skids a little?

The quickest way to $100,000 that I know of is to create $100k worth of programs, products, services, and… ask.

In practice, the principle of “ask” works a little more like this…

You get crystal-clear-clarity.  You make a decision or create an intention, depending on your level of commitment. (There is a big difference – I cover it in depth in our magical training.)

You let go of attachments and resistance and prepare to receive it.  The opportunity shows up.

You take action on the opportunity, and…

Voilà!  It comes right in.

Sometimes you have to go through that cycle a few times, especially if releasing attachment to resistance and struggle is, well, a struggle.  Also, sometimes there are a few opportunities, one after the other, like a breadcrumbs trail.

But anyway… guess what that opportunity will involve, 99.99999% of the time?

Some form of asking.

Ask for the perfect opportunity.

Ask to be shown.

Make whatever ask is required, of the human BE-ing the Divine has sent your way, to help you on your way.

Now, I’m not saying that you’re going to have to ask humans ALL of the time.

Sometimes you ask the Divine and the perfect opportunity shows up and all you have to do is say yes.

But even then, often that opportunity will involve an ask.

For example, I got very clear a few months ago that I want to go to Necker Island to meet Richard Branson.   Not only that, I want it to be with a collective of amazing, rockstar 7-figure businesswomen who have the potential to become lifelong friends.

Literally what felt like 5 minutes after I claimed that Desire, the opportunity showed up.

One of my friends said, “Have you heard about [rockstar businesswoman]’s trip to Necker?”

Me: No.

Her: I’m sending an email recommending you right now.

Okay, so – going to Necker isn’t cheap.  It’s multiple five figures.  (All proceeds go to charity, which is cool.)

While I can create the money for anything, more importantly I’m in a partnership with Dear Husband, who is always affected in one way or another.  Of course.

So to say yes to the opportunity – I still had to ask.  I still had to have that uncomfortable conversation.

(Well, I could have NOT asked, I suppose – but that would be completely out of integrity for our partnership.)

Now here’s the interesting thing about asking.  You’re asking all the time, whether you’re aware of it or not.  You ask with your vibration – specifically, the vibration of your thoughts.

Whatever you put OUT, the Universe will match  it can’t not.  Ergo, the Divine is always sending opportunities your way.

Want those opportunities to be in alignment with creating what you want?

Ask with your energy first… then ask with your words.

Chances are, the reason why you’re not creating as quickly as you could be… is because you haven’t asked.  An easy way to create momentum is… to ask.

So what are you Desiring right now?  What’s the ASK that you can ask?

At the end of the day, the Universe wants you to have what you Desire even more than you do, and it wants you to have it quickly. It’s just as easy for the Universe to produce $1 million as it is to produce $1000, and it can do it in lightning speed.

But ya gotta ask.  Consciously.

Uncomfortable with asking or not sure how to ask? We’ve got an awesome podcast episode on this that I know you’ll love.  Check it out here.

(And we’ll dive more into the energetics of asking – and how we ASK with our energy – in a future article.)